The Road To Recovery When She Is Gone
- Date: 2008-05-28 - Word Count: 376
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Sometimes a man is more upset at being the one who was dumped rather than being the one who dumped her. Call it a bruised ego but nobody likes to be on the receiving end.
Depending on the amount of time spent in this last relationship, it won't be long before other women stop instantly recognizing you as still pining for someone. You are not a good prospect to a woman looking for a relationship if she even thinks you are on the rebound or have longings for your last love. You will discover that dating or even flirting with women is something to be enjoyed and not the dreaded exercise that we often fear after having been so intimate with just one woman for an extended period.
There are opportunities for new relationships of all types and you don't need to find another committed one right away. You are unattached and "single" again. A little dalliance with a woman here or there does wonders for your disposition as well as your complexion. Like your woman may have done, there are other women who cheat on their boyfriends and like your ex's new boyfriend you don't really hope to keep any of these women for the long term.
You may find the opportunity presents itself to become intimate with one of these women and I feel obligated to warn against it. Forgetting the fact that you are likely doing to another man what was done to you, these women are usually trouble. Often they
have financial or emotional problems and expect that you will be rescuing them somehow. You are seeking unattached, honest, and sincere women to date if you seek a long-term relationship. A woman who is involved with another man while sleeping with you does not meet those requirements.
The worst thing that could happen to you is that she gets caught, intentionally or unintentionally, and believes she will be moving on with you. If that happens you may find yourself with an unwanted relationship. While you were just looking to "poke some fun" at her, she took it seriously. Always remember, "If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you." These women are not prospects for long-term relationships no matter what they tell you to convince you otherwise.
Depending on the amount of time spent in this last relationship, it won't be long before other women stop instantly recognizing you as still pining for someone. You are not a good prospect to a woman looking for a relationship if she even thinks you are on the rebound or have longings for your last love. You will discover that dating or even flirting with women is something to be enjoyed and not the dreaded exercise that we often fear after having been so intimate with just one woman for an extended period.
There are opportunities for new relationships of all types and you don't need to find another committed one right away. You are unattached and "single" again. A little dalliance with a woman here or there does wonders for your disposition as well as your complexion. Like your woman may have done, there are other women who cheat on their boyfriends and like your ex's new boyfriend you don't really hope to keep any of these women for the long term.
You may find the opportunity presents itself to become intimate with one of these women and I feel obligated to warn against it. Forgetting the fact that you are likely doing to another man what was done to you, these women are usually trouble. Often they
have financial or emotional problems and expect that you will be rescuing them somehow. You are seeking unattached, honest, and sincere women to date if you seek a long-term relationship. A woman who is involved with another man while sleeping with you does not meet those requirements.
The worst thing that could happen to you is that she gets caught, intentionally or unintentionally, and believes she will be moving on with you. If that happens you may find yourself with an unwanted relationship. While you were just looking to "poke some fun" at her, she took it seriously. Always remember, "If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you." These women are not prospects for long-term relationships no matter what they tell you to convince you otherwise.
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