Your boyfriend has told you he wants to take some time out from the relationship and you are sitting alone remembering the good times. Your heart is broken and you never knew you could feel so lonely. That is when you dream of seeing you ex come crawling back and saying he regrets the breakup. He will tell you he has made a big mistake and he will do whatever you ask if you will only have him back.

To many that might seem to be an impossible dream, but it is not. Many women have dreamed that same dream and made it come true by using the right male psychology. This is not some magic spell, hypnosis or witch craft and it does not require any special talent to use. You only have to know how your ex boyfriend thinks and how certain things you do will make him react.

Being a woman you already have probably used a bit of male psychology, but you called it woman's intuition. When you meet a man you almost instinctively can feel what will turn him on. That is when your head is clear and your emotions are under control. But after a breakup all of that goes out the window and you act without thinking or using you intuition.

You forget that you have to do certain things to make a man come on to you and you dash after him crying and begging. That is guaranteed not to make you look desirable or turn him on. When you met him and started dating, you played hard to get and kept him guessing. Men love a challenge and that is what you were at the start and to get your ex back, you need to become a challenge again.

You cannot be a challenge as long as you are throwing yourself at him declaring you cannot live without him. You have to make him think he is in danger of losing you and the you become a challenge again. Begin by accepting the breakup and moving on with your life. Go back to the things you liked to do before you met the man of your dreams. Sometimes you become so involved in a relationship, you give up doing things you enjoy and being with people you love.

So, get reacquainted with your family and go out with your friends and have a good time. This will help relieve the stress on you and give your ex boyfriend a chance to see that you can have a life without him. It will also give him the opportunity to experience his life without you and he will see it is not so great. Hearing of you being out having fun will make him remember the good times he had with you.

That is when he will realize he misses you. The male psychology is starting to have it's effect. He will feel the need to be with you again. It is the way a man's mind works. The more you take something away from him, the more he wants it. By taking yourself out of his life you have made him want to beg you for a second chance.