BDSM bondage


by Tnetsirk200 - Date: 2007-01-26 - Word Count: 706 Share This!

Bondage involves Being restrained or tied up, for pleasure. Vincilagnia is sometimes known as the Paraphilia of being sexually aroused by bondage. It is A proven fact, and may studies have been shown that 3/4 of men find bondage, or some type of restraning erotic. Many women do also.
Bondage has been around for a long time. It has sexual appeal to both mena and women of both sexes and sexual orientation. a subculture of gay men, also known as leathermen, were one of the firsts to make obvious of the bondage like tastes in pulbic, and let it be known to people. In the 1960's is when heterosexual groups came together, and started experimenting with bondage. They discovered it was not only for gay men, but sutible for everyone. These groups have grown so large, that even small cities, no matter how small, have at least one organization, or group of peple interested in bondage. These groups are trying to take a big step. They want to make their groups semi- public. They want more oppurtunities for BDSM, and want people to be aware it is availabe, but also to make it safer for strangers to get together and be protected, they have objective safety rules in these groups that they follow.
Many companies that manufacture or sell bondage products, say that it is more than just a fantasy to most. Even though none of this is proven, they state that more and more couples, use bondage in an everyday occurence, rather than just for fantasy purposes. Bondage is not just used for intercourse, in many occurences it ends in masturbation.
One study of Mens sexual fantasies, found that the fantasy of being bound duuring intercorse, is second to having sex with a voluptuous nude woman.
Bondage is present in pornography for some time. Even though the fantasy is there for both men and women to be bound, in pornography for men, most times it only shows women being bound. maybe because most men don't want to be aroused by another man, and can identify more with a woman being restrained. It also may be because Pictures of bound women allow then to experience vicariously both the heterosexual male dominant and the female submissive fantasies.
Bondage can be divided into six main categories.
-Bondage that pulls the body together. EX. Ropes straps, harnesses.
-Bondage that spread parts of the body apart. EX. Spreader bars
-Bondage that ties the body down to another object.Ex. to a chair, or a bed.
-Bondage that suspends the body from another object. EX. suspension
-Bondage that wraps the whole body or a part of it in bindings such as cloth or plastic. EX. saran wrap, or mumification. as well as sleep sack bondage.
Different types of restraints used in Bondage.
Rope is oftenly used because of it's flexibility. But it takes a lot of practice to do this safetly. Chains including cuffs and belly chains are another type of restraint used. The more agressibve type use straightjackets.Also used are made bondage gear such as monogloves, sleepsacks, bondage hooks and bondage tables. Those are just a few of the different type of restraints used for bondage.
Different types of bondage techniques include..
-verbal bondage, where one simply tell the other to do something.
-simple tying the hands together in front or behind.
anchoring the hands to the front, back or sides of a belt at the waist.
- spread eagle- the legs restrained at the ankles, and legs spread apart.
-hogtie is securing each wrist to it's coresponding ankle behind the back. I recomend bondage cuffs for this.
- A ball lock which is the fastening of a padlock aroung the male testicles.
-and the crotch rope involves pulling a rope between the labia to apply pressure to the femal genitals.
Now those are the simple techniques of bondage, there ae many more, most of which are ver complex. If you are interested in bondage, but are not sure of what to get, or ho to start, i hope this help you decide what is best for you. I also know of this great site for bondage and bdsm toys. It is one of the cheapest priced sites on the net. the Discount Sex Toys store is great for getting a cheap toy for bdsm but the quality is great.

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