Are You the Reason You Don't Succeed With Women?


by Rion Williams - Date: 2007-04-09 - Word Count: 1119 Share This!

A chance to relieve the lifelong psychological damage that men have around women and dating is found within this article. Now, men can understand what's going on so they can reclaim their personal power and clarity.



When it comes to understanding women, being confused with their behavior and wanting success; let me say this.

You weren't the problem in the first place.

You just didn't understand your relationship to what was going on.

This lifted a tremendous burden off of my own inner character, as I unrightfully took on all kinds of pressure that wasn't my fault. I was conditioned to be ignorant.

I always knew I was a quality guy yet couldn't understand why women never displayed interest in what they said they wanted the most.

I used to feel that I couldn't control my emotional response around the hottest of women. Have you ever felt that?

You saw a beautiful woman and you felt your physiology change?

I mean your entire behavior changed and it did whether you were conscious of it or not.

Believe it or not, women are aware of these things and that's why they haven't opened up to you from the start.

And you can try to make it logical and 'get a grip' but the truth is, you're behaving out of your subconscious. Your true relationship to her is already evident and no matter how you communicate, your nonverbal body language is already getting across that you're intimidated by her.

This will get you nowhere unless she is really desperate or interested in your social status.

This puts all kinds of men (millions actually) into a dilemma.

They can't 'achieve' that which they've (objectively) desired the most.

And how do they desire it the most? Simple. Their socio-cultural environment tells them to desire it the most. They see the men's magazines, they see pornography, and most importantly they see the exact behavior of their idols and the same attributes in the women around them.

The power is very real and they're in the wrong relational dynamic to it. They're in the social relational dynamic where they lose.

To them they can't tell the difference between a cover model and the girl next door who has the same social attributes. He has already added so much emotional value to this concept and objectification.

It's not even enough to focus on what he is good at in communicating with people because his nonverbal and subconscious behavior is already so conditioned.

He has to recondition his mind on something that has grounding or he'll never be able to consistently be comfortable around the most beautiful and powerful of women or get them attracted to him.

The advantage of when he is re-conditioned is that women will respond to him like never before. The same women that rejected him will open up to him and he won't have to do very much 'work' at all to get places.

The behavioral power that women have today is VERY real and if you don't know your relationship to it or aren't equal to it you will consistently fail.

But the thing is that a man just can't 'act' this level of nonverbal mastery. He has to BE it and women will be testing him harshly on whether he is this man or not.

If he isn't, they lose interest and they wait in hope that someday they'll find a man who is comfortable around them so they can finally open up and experience their fantasies yet the men just can't get a grip.

Nonverbal 'body language' techniques don't work because they're dealing with the surface behavior of duplicating what other men who are successful are doing. It's 'logical' and stemming from the conscious mind but it can't effect the subconscious mind because the
man still is grounded in the wrong relation to these women. His body won't let the change take place because it already knows it's relation to the women.

Finally there is an answer that goes beyond the power of NLP and hypnosis. The answer is deeper and more powerful than those methods because those methods and how they're taught are limited to a man's 'inner game' when his own personal 'game' isn't the problem in the first place.

He's just ignorant to the relational dynamics of power and where he stands in relation to that; he isn't the problem per say. He's just had the wrong model of female sexuality the entire time and he's been behaviorally conditioned and grounded in it.

THAT is why he fails and pick up lines are a waste of time only getting him further away from success.

The answer is with understanding female behavior and applying Alpha Relational Dynamics.

He has to ground himself on the proper model of a woman's sexuality.

And because we don't have that proper model of a woman's sexuality in the U.S. or 'social matrix', that is the only reason millions of men are failing with women. It's also the reason they don't see it within the women themselves; it ISN'T behaviorally evident otherwise our men wouldn't be having problems.

But it's still up to him to 'know'. Women expect him to know and will never tell a man their secret.

Alpha R.D. will show a man the secret to woman. He will then be able to see through her causal adaptive socio-cultural conditioning to the real her.

There is a lot of power being wielded and men will continue to be repressed if they remain ignorant to the truth of what's going on.

When they can see the truth and recondition themselves on the proper sexual female behavioral model, everything will change. They will actually be harnessing the same amount of power the women are because they will be on their level and a much stronger man.

This will take some work but it is the answer. It will take work because men have been conditioned for a decade or more with emotional attribution on the wrong models of female behavior and sexuality.

He has to rebuild a new path of neural connections; a new highway that is grounded in the proper/natural relational dynamic with women. Then he will be massively attracting women where he goes.

When he has the same amount of emotional attribution and behavioral conditioning aligned to the proper model of a woman's sexuality, then he will be comfortable around the most powerful, sexiest and beautiful women in the world as I am.

No inner game trick, body language or mental 'technique' could come close to overriding the massive conditioned reality that I had other than natural grounding and female alpha natural cognition.

Inner game is not enough. Study relational dynamics for true cognition, power and permanent success. You will then be equal or greater in relation to all women in the world and that is a massive amount of power.

They're waiting for men like us.


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