Dealing With Rejection From Women & Having Good Dates


by Adrian Hargray - Date: 2010-08-31 - Word Count: 519 Share This!

For many men, dating is hard. But even for these men, help is available. In this article you will learn some dating tips that you can use to have success with women. It doesn't matter what you look like, how old you are or where you come from, you too can have success with women if you pay attention to the things that I mention in this article.

The first thing that you need to know is that rejection is natural. You won't get a "yes" from all of the girls that you approach so don't worry about if someone turns you down. It's only natural that you want to avoid rejection but you have to realize that you have to "pay to play".

Even though rejection is natural and will occur, eventually you will get a date. And when you get this date, you don't want to blow it. You should know that a date is just a date. It's not the end of the world if you don't get it right and you will still wake up in the morning to go to work. When on a date try your best to relax and calm down. Take things naturally and don't push yourself on your date.

Never have high expectations for your date and just enjoy the time being with here. And above all other things, just be yourself. Yes that's right, be yourself. If you don't know how to be yourself, then now is a good time to start learning.

Women can sense a fake man from far away, so when you just act natural and be yourself, she will know that you are being genuine and will accept you for who you are. To pretend that you're somebody else will only make you have to keep up this front for a long time, and eventually you will get caught in your lie. So do her and yourself a favor and just be yourself. It's the best thing that you can do to make the date go well.

Also when on your date, don't try to focus on yourself so much. Open your ears and be a good listener as you will want to comment on alot of the things that she says. Ask questions, be a good listener, and talk to your date. Don't focus on yourself throughout the whole night as you will come across as self-centered and selfish and this is not the vibe that you want to give off.

Another tip for your date night is to try something exciting. Instead of a routine dinner and a movie where there is little interaction, try going out to play mini golf or go skating. These are activities that women love and that can lead to alot of romance and a second date if everything goes right. Just try yourself to have fun throughout the whole ordeal and you will be fine.

All of the tips in this article will help you to be the confident man that you need to be in order to have success with women. Good luck on your dating quest and having success with dating.

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