One of the most frustrating things about a breakup is trying to communicate with your ex boyfriend. Nothing would make you happier than to have him call you and be able to talk about your problems. You feel that a little give and take would make things alright again and you would be a happy couple again. The problem is, he does not feel the same way you do. Your ex just wants to be left alone to work things out by himself. If this is the situation you find yourself in at present, there are some things you can do to change his thinking.

If you want your ex boyfriend to call after the breakup, give him an irresistible reason to call. This can be easier than you might think, but first you have to respect his wishes. You have to stop calling, emailing, or sending him text messages. Have no contact with him in any way for a few weeks. This may not be what you want to do, but it will set up the action you will be taking. If you continue to stay in his face, he might never want to talk to you again.

Making your ex boyfriend call you can be as simple as creating a mystery that will make him so curious that he will have to know the answer. This should be done only a few weeks have passed since the breakup and he has had time to think and settle down. You need to give him time to wonder what has happened to you and why you are not trying to get him back. That will already make him curious and set the stage for the action you are going to take that will make him call you.

Here is what you do, and it works like magic to get him to call you. Send him just one email. Only one because if you blast him with one after another he will think you are just pulling some stunt to try to get him back. If he does not call you right away, do not become impatient. You have to let his curiosity get the best of him.

In the email you are you are going to thank him for teaching you something very important. Then tell him you need more advice on the matter and would appreciate a call so you could tell him more about it. The idea is to create so much curiosity on his part that he will not be able to resist calling you. The more he thinks about it, the more he will want to know what you are talking about.

When he does call you, it is important that you have your emotions in check, so you do not start crying at the sound of his voice. When he asks you what you meant by something he has taught you, be calm and sincere. Tell him that he has taught you that it is better to put the wishes of another ahead of your own. Then add that you owe him an apology for causing him pain. If you do not cry or beg, that simple little email will open the way to get your ex boyfriend back.