The Nine Phases Of A Seduction
Here we present a nine-phase sequence which covers a male-female interaction from the initial meeting of two strangers to the consummation of the interaction in sexual intercourse.
The sequence may occur on one evening, or over a number of meetings- in particular the middle phases may last over several dates. The average amount of time required from meeting to sex is usually somewhere between 5 and 9 hours- where some of the phases, such as the first, usually last only a few minutes
1. Open
The man approaches the woman and initiates conversation. This phase is successfully negotiated when the woman indicates that she is willing for the man to stay- we call this indication the "hook-point".
2. Female-to-male attraction
The man demonstrates his value to the female, taking care not to appear try-hard. The female responds by giving indicators of interest- light touching, eye contact, smiling etc.
3. Male-to-female attraction
The man baits the female into investing in the interaction through demonstrating her own unique attractiveness- i.e. he gives her a chance to "win him over". The man responds by rewarding the female for her efforts- either verbally, or through light touching etc.
4. Conversation
Having established mutual attraction, the interaction becomes more substantial and a sense of connection and rapport is formed. This phase is the opportunity for the male and female to discover the breadth and depth of topics and experiences which they have in common.
5. Connection
Both parties feel a vibe that it is 'on'. The conversation may decrease in fervour, leading to the development of sexual tension. Kissing usually occurs during this phase.
6. Intimacy
The location for the interaction should now have moved to a more private venue, such as the home. More intimate physical contact may comfortably ensue at this phase.
7. Foreplay
The couple begin the physical escalation towards sex. Premature commencement of this phase- such as in the meeting place venue - may abort the pick-up before the end.
8. Last-minute resistance
This is the point of no return for the female, where she may throw out a number of emotional objections disguised as logical propositions. The man needs to reassure the female at this point of his commitment to her and the interaction.
9. Sexual intercourse
The couple have sex. It may be necessary to do this several times in order to commence a relationship.
Observing a male-female interaction at this level of granularity helps maintain the smoothness of the pick-up artist's escalation, a vital ingredient for the successful communication of respect for a woman's needs in the process from meeting to sex.
Related Tags: attract women, seduce women, pick up artist, pua, neil strauss, pick-up women
Become the Ultimate Pick Up Artist so You Can Seduce, Attract and Pick-Up Women! PUA Training is a unique university for students who want to better their lives with women. Long lasting guaranteed results at www.puatraining.com
Your Article Search Directory : Find in ArticlesRecent articles in this category:
- How to Find a Russian Partner
A relationship developed online is a trend these days. Many men actually prefer to start a romantic - Things You Should Not Talk About on a First Date
First dates can be stressful, but they can also be a lot of fun. If you make the situation low press - Low-cost Dating Tips To Suit Your Tastes
Dating has always been an expensive affair. However, if you're running on a drawstring budget, then - How To Pick Up Girls - The Art Of Approaching Women
So, you want to learn the art of picking up women, do you?Well, for one thing... it's not easy, at l - Real World Dating Advice For Men - How To Handle Your Insecurities Around Women
Feeling insecure around a woman is something that ALL men can kind of share in. Whether or not we sp - Are You Looking Forward To Make New Friends?
In today's fast paced life, phone has become an essential commodity. Everyone is busy in his daily s - Thai Girls Dating Online: Does It Help You
Thai girls are perceived that they are so sweet. Dating with nice Thai girls have been converted int - Become Happy With Ukrainian Dating Tips & Advice
It is about time you settled down or at least had more fun. Ukrainian dating and meeting Ukrainian w - Free Phone Chat- Revolutionary New Way To Make Boost Your Social Life
From online chatting to phone chat, the step is but a small one. Movies and books all portray fallin - Bad Boys Versus Good Guys - Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Men
I personally have had my share of bad boys in my lifetime and after many broken hearts and life less
Most viewed articles in this category:
- Dating: Gay Online Services
Gay online dating websites have already helped millions of people find their soul mate across the gl - Dating And How To Attract A New Love
Here are some easy rituals to attract a new love partner. There's an ancient east Asian concept cal - How to Have a Beautiful Relationship With a Girl
1. Things to already have and believeYou know who you are and believe in yourself and what you can o - Great First Dating Impressions
There are those who will offer you very old fashioned secrets to impressing single women for love an - The Secret Body Language Of Sexual Attraction
What body language in a female demonstrates sexual attraction? You'll know from my previous articles - The Phenomenon of Prickteasing
I love this topic right here. First let me say I draw the reference 'pricktease' from the movie ' - Attract Better Dates Like Magic
If you want to meet someone special, you have to get out of the house. But you can go out every sing - Dating For Singles
The desire to find a member of the opposite sex for a partner (we call it marriage nowadays) has bee - Dating After Divorce
Many single Christians are confused when it comes to dating after divorce, as each church seems to h - Online Dating Sims Games Bringing Realism To Dating
Online dating has become very popular and with so many members now interested in such sites the soci