"The object of all life is development; and everything that lives has an inalienable right to all the development it is capable of attaining. Man's right to life means his right to have the free and unrestricted use of all the things which may be necessary to his fullest mental, spiritual, and physical unfoldment; or, in other words, his right to be rich." From The Science Of Getting Rich By Wallace Wattles

This extract from the science of getting rich is to talk about what you do have the right to have. Do you deserve to be with a woman (or man) that you truly desire? Do you deserve to be in love? Do you deserve to have a fun dating experience?

The goal of life itself is to evolve. To become better and better at what you do, at how you live, at how happy you are; so of course, your relationships or dating life would have to be included as well.

Since life's goals is evolvement and YOU are a part of life, therefore self improvement and personal development is not only natural to you it would make you happier as you are fulfilling a part of your genetic programming to evolve.

What does it mean to get better at dating?

First of all, learn from everything that happens on your date. After your date review everything that happened and decide how you could have done something better, or received an idea with more openness or were too slow to reject an idea to begin with.

Second, Read. Read several books and websites on dating. Go over flirting, body language, conversation starters, maintaining interest, safety, etc. Don't assume you can figure everything out for yourself with what you have. Everybody needs information to make an informed decision. I am emphasizing this because I know many people who think they know what they are doing but are essentially making a decision based on a daydream. Even a little bit of research would reveal that most of their assumptions are wrong or inappropriate, of just plain bizarre. Know this. Men and women ARE separate species. At least, that is the way you should approach learning about the opposite sex, without assumption, as if learning about them for the very first time.

Quite simply, it is your birthright to have the kind of dating and relationship experience that will make you truly happy. It may be that you do not know what will make you happy, or that you may have to work on yourself first before you attract the best date for you.

Don't give up on dating or finding a good relationship simply because you have had some bad experiences. Don't expect the perfect mate to come along on the very next date. Simply enjoy the dating experience with each person and learn from it till you too "break free" to the dating and relationship life that you truly desire.

Know that it is your birthright to life the dating and relationship lifestyle that will make you happy. You can make a difference by improving yourself, by learning about the opposite sex, by being optimistic and trusting that each experience is helping you learn more so you can claim your birthright.