The Mechanics Of A Break Up And The Remedy
Your friends and family are well intentioned. They think they know what is best for you when they say just move on. Some have said you should ignore your ex, just completely put him or her out of your mind, and others have suggested that you should be friends. But you know in your heart that all you want is what you had before.
Life can be cruel and it can be difficult. So what do you do; do you listen to your friends or do you follow your heart. Let me tell you a story about one of my friends because it might help you.
Natasha is a 21 year old student at a local college. She and David seemed to be the perfect couple until David met Tonya. David did not tell Natasha about Tonya right away. Actually, David and Tonya began seeing each other very innocently. They worked together after school at a diner and soon learned that they shared an interest in video games.
Natasha had always tried to shame David about playing video games, telling him that they are a waste of time and money. Tonya on the other hand not only discussed the games on the same level as David but she challenged him to a match at any game he wanted to play. Of course that was hard to refuse! The friendship between David and Tonya grew.
And as their friendship grew Natasha and David seemed to grow farther and farther apart. When David told Natasha about his friendship with Tonya she automatically jumped to conclusions and broke up with him. She assumed that David was doing a lot more with Tonya than just playing video games.
Now looking at this relationship from the outside it is much easier to see some things that can be done to fix the problems. Obviously we do not have the emotions to deal with here that Natasha does. But it is clear to me that Natasha could have handled this situation differently and if she had her relationship would be intact and probably stronger than ever.
Fast forward; Natasha bought the ebook, The Magic Of Making Up, and followed some advice in it. In a nutshell, Natasha and David are back together but it took some work. Natasha bought David a video game and asked him to teach her how to play it. She now enjoys video games, though certainly not as much as David or Tonya. Natasha and Tonya became friends but since that time Tonya has moved away.
David and Natasha are now engaged. Their future looks bright and for now at least David continues to include video games as part of his entertainment. Natasha has accepted this as part of David.
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