How To Plan A Wedding


by Rafi Michael - Date: 2007-04-28 - Word Count: 469 Share This!

When you have used up 12months of intense planning to get together all of the people that are important to you, it is amazingly easy to loose sight of what really matters. You get caught up in all of the minor details that most people feel are essential, but when it comes down to it, if you leave the chapel, beach, your home or anywhere you select to "tie the knot", and you are married to the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then your assignment has been accomplished.

Generally when we plan weddings, we get financial support from our families. Many times there is a conjecture that we have to gratify them and make them happy too. This is not the case at all. It is a day for you and your partner to share with your friends and family, so it should show your style, not your parents or your future in-laws'. If you try to make everybody happy, you have the potential to create a great amount of disorder and stress for yourself. This will only complicate matters and ends up being a case of "Too many cooks in the kitchen".

The next tip for maintaining your sanity is about choices. When you begin your planning you will quickly notice that you have set yourself free in a world where there are infinite possibilities and options from which you can select. It is a good idea to fix to your decisions once they have been made. There are always going to be things that you see that you hope you would have known about throughout your time in wedding world. But if you carry on to bounce from theme to theme or color to color, you will only waste time and energy and reduce the possibility of enjoying this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

It helps you to relax if you elect times for your wedding planning. Due to complete excitement, you will find that you have "wedding on the brain" and may think about it 24-7. Choose a couple of days a week and set aside a time slot to surf the internet or make phone calls to schedule appointments, this will keep you from becoming completely consumed and also provide you a chance to focus on the rest of the life that is still happening around you.

Finally, this is your wedding day!!! In the weeks previous to the event, take a few minutes everyday to go to a calm place and count your blessings. Write them down so that, in times of stress you can refer back to them, smile and relax. Keep in mind, your wedding day may be the first day of your new lives together, but it is fostering your marriage that is what will truly bring you years of happiness.


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