Do you want to date a stripper? This is just about every man's fantasy at one point or another in their life and strip clubs actually are a very good place to meet hot women if you know what you're doing. Of course, most strippers will tell you that they don't date customers and in general this is the truth. It is also true that strippers do date guys that they meet in the club but only guys that know how to act and aren't creepy perverts.

So how do you know if you're coming off like a creep or a pervert? Although there are many categories that strippers put customers into the creep or the pervert is one category of guys that a stripper will steer clear of. If you really are acting mentally unbalanced and are having delusions that a certain stripper is your girlfriend before you meet her outside of a strip club you really should get some counseling or mental help.

A date with a stripper takes place outside the club and anything that happens between you and her inside the club is a business transaction and you are a customer. A date occurs when a stripper agrees to meet you outside the club for a drink or coffee or for dinner and a movie. This should be what you are shooting for if you want to date a stripper.

Asking her out on a date outside of the club doesn't make you a creep or a pervert. It does show that you are interested in dating her so no harm, no foul. If on the other hand, if you are asking her to be your girlfriend or becoming possessive of her while she is at work you need to get a grip. She is working and if you ever have any hopes of dating a stripper you will have to come to terms with the fact that she is an exotic dancer and that there are going to be guys that see her without her clothes off. This is what she does for a living. Plain and simple.

The sad fact is that if you have done anything to make yourself look like a creep or a stalker every stripper at the club is going to be a little bit wary of you, especially the girl that you were hoping to date. The good news is that there is a solution.

Take some time and just talk with her. Talk with her about normal topics such as what she likes to do on her day off or what her hopes, dreams and ambitions are. Women like to talk about themselves and strippers are no exception to the rule. Take some time to really get to know here and find out if she is the type of woman that you really want to date. Show her that you are interested in dating her and not just dating a stripper. You might find out that she is even more interesting and fun than you had even imagined or that she is just a bit too much of a flake to deal with. Either way, you will be making a decision based in reality instead of upon your desire to just date some hot stripper that you have taken a liking to at the club.