Tips on Approaching Women During the Day
How To Approach Women
Do you feel awkward or uneasy to approach women? Has it ever happened to you that you see some woman and you feel deeply interested but could not gather up the courage to go and talk to her? Do you feel as if you are being stopped or dragged backwards when it comes to the matter of making an approach to a woman?
If the answers to all the questions are in affirmative, it is clear how frustrating it can be to you. There is no reason to think that it is only you who find it very tough to make an approach to the women. Just reveal this fact about you to a group of male friends of your, and you will discover that you are not the only one. There are many who do not simply know how to approach women. They feel thoroughly paralyzed with fear and uneasiness whenever the thought of approaching a woman dawns upon them. What is more interesting, they have got no explanation for this kind of queer behavior.
If you have been a victim of this problem that is common to most of the men, this page will be of immense help to you since here you will get very important and valuable tips on how to approach women. Follow these tips and suggestions if you really want to approach women and impress her deeply. Here go the tips.
Tip 1 on how to approach women
The thing that holds you back whenever you are in your bid to make an approach to a woman is nothing but an approach anxiety. What you have got to do, is nothing but to come over that anxiety and become free and frank enough within yourself. Keep it in your mind for all the time that if you are not free within yourself, it will never be possible for you to be frank with the woman to whom you want to make an approach.
You must have already been immensely eager to know how you would be able to come over this approach anxiety. To tackle approach anxiety, what you should do before everything, is to understand what it is and what problems it causes. It is nothing but a strong fear that prevents you from approaching a woman. Are you wondering how and why it happens? It occurs to you since you get too much occupied with the thoughts about how to approach women methodically and perfectly. When you are occupied with these thoughts, it is never possible for you to succeed in approaching women.
What you have got to do in order to make an impressive approach to the women, is to go straight to the woman and strike a conversation with an air of natural frankness and spontaneity. Spontaneity is something that will render the woman with no way but to continue the conversation with you, even though the fact may be that the woman does not like your presence at that very moment. Start with saying ‘Hi', and you are already in the game.
Tip 2 on how to approach women
Do never be thoroughly and impulsively preoccupied with the thoughts about how the woman would react or what you will say in reply to the reaction of the woman to your saying ‘hi' to her. Here are some of the thoughts that occupy the men before they even think of making an approach to women. Take care that you do not have these thoughts in your mind before you approach any woman. The thoughts are generally as follow:
"I may not be the perfect kind of person that she would like to go for."
"I am not confident enough so that I can make a smart and impressive approach to her"
"How ridiculously people will be laughing at me when they would come to know about my foolish approach and being denied by the woman!"
Eliminating these thoughts would be the first step while the second step will be to incur doubts within you about the supposed inefficiency of yours to impress a woman. These doubts will result in the heightening of your confidence that is one of the dire necessities in order to make an approach to women.
The third step will be to imagine how the girl or the woman can react to your approach. Imagine, but have no fear or anxiety in your mind since they can make your imagination go into a wrong way. As a result, you will not be able to gather up the confidence to approach the woman. It will be an opportunity for you if you get the chance to watch the woman for some time before you approach her. Within this time you have got to have an impression of the nature of the girl. This will help you gauge how the girl can react.
The fourth step will be to have a clear conception of what kind of a man you want to pose before the woman. If you have it from earlier time, you are not likely to fumble before her or to create a mixed impression in her so that she gets confused and decides not to go further with the conversation. Take care that you do not make a mess in your bid to create the impression about you as a dynamic person in the woman. In that case you will end up in confusing the woman utterly.
Tip 3 on how to approach women
If you happen to be already a somehow experienced and efficient person who knows how to approach woman, do try to master the art by finding out innovative methods of making impressive and unique approaches. There are hundreds of tricks to make an approach to women. It is also true that only a few among those tricks work in all the cases. The others work if they somehow click and if they somehow happen to be commensurate with the situation and the nature of the woman. You have got to find out those few tricks that work for all kinds of women in all kinds of situations. You will be, then, really a master in the field of how to approach women.
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