Win Back Ex - First Steps to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back


by Robert William Locke - Date: 2008-08-10 - Word Count: 487 Share This!

She has told you that it is all off -  it's official - ‘you can tell who you like' were her exact words as she left.  Here is what NOT to do. You want to win her back but any gut reaction or desperately trying to get her back could do a lot more damage than you think.

 

So, cool it dude.  Instead of panicking, you just call a HALT - a big STOP sign you need on the fridge.  You need to think this one out so no dialling or messaging her  which will only make things worse and the telephone companies richer !  These  are the actions of a desperate man. You just need to think this one out and realise that it is the loss of control which is pushing you to these desperate actions.

 

First reaction is to get her back NOW - otherwise it may be too late.  Dangerous move - this is likely to blow up in your face as she can get angrier and more pissed off than ever before.  Why ?  Because you are in a state - go on- admit it.  If you are like that then you are likely to make some real blunders. If you behave like a stalker, then that is a no- no. But there are also other reactions- a  vicious need for revenge, anger which makes you say some awful things and rehearse (yet again !) some old arguments or reasons for tension.

 

So you need a cooling off period - ONE month. That is what all the other manuals tell you to do but they do not give you any other advice. Well,we are going to go much further than that. So, circle the date in your diary or put a reminder message on your mobile - as if you would forget !

 

How are you going to spend the month ? You will never get through it - well you will and you will become a NORMAL rational human being again. Time gives you that great chance to stand back, examine coolly everything that was right or wrong with that relationship.

 

So while you are becoming a really cooler you- you may bump into her - after all you might be going to the same gym or work together in the same office. You have to be friendly in a cool way and be ready to move on with what you are doing.

 

So what is going on inside your head  during these 30 awful days ?  First of all, you are cooling down so  the emotions which you felt so sharply are now cooling down a bit - a bit like the fire dying out gradually.

 

Secondly, you are going to get over feelings of anger, rejection and feeling depressed.  You are , probably without realising it moving on to the next phase which is the strategic one where your plan will be stunningly effective in getting back with your ex. You can find out a lot more about this strategy by clicking on the link below.

 

 

 

 

 


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