7 Reasons Why Nice Guys Fail With Women! Not Knowing This Can Totally Spoil Your Chances


by Rahul Talwar - Date: 2010-05-09 - Word Count: 570 Share This!

Why is it that women are not romantically inclined or attracted to "nice" guys? Most of the time it seems like just being "nice" is not going to work for you. Women do seem to be more attracted towards men who are mysterious, cool and confident and who have a great sense of humor.

If you are wondering why you have not managed to hook your woman as yet, it could be that you are too "nice". Read the following to find out!

Making the wrong "first" impression
The first time you meet is very important. Women do tend to either label you as "definitely someone to date" or "just a friend", almost the first time they clap eyes on you. If you don't do your best to come across as romantic material - you will end up as being thought of as just one of the nice guys around.

Encouraging the "friend feelings"
If you go around giving the girl you like the impression that you are ready to be her best buddy or someone whose shoulder she can cry on, then you can't blame her if she tends to consider you her friend. Make sure she knows you want to date her and she will see you in a new light.

Being like an open book
There is nothing more boring as being with someone who is so predictable! Make sure she does not know everything about you. Keep her curious about you and be mysterious. Tease her and do the unpredictable - it will keep her interested.

Forcing them to like you
If you are constantly trying to "convince" a woman to fall in love with you, you are doing the wrong thing. She should feel attracted to you in the first place before you can think of going a step further. Begging, pleading and chasing are bad ideas.

Constantly seeking her approval
Don't be a wimp and keep wondering if you are pleasing her. This does not mean that you have to treat her badly but you don't have to get her permission or approval for every single thing. This will just show her that you don't have a backbone of your own.

Trying to impress her with expensive gifts
Many men who think they can buy a woman's affections with gifts end up failures. A woman who will go out with you only if you can buy her gifts is not worth pursuing in the first place. Let her be impressed with your character, personality and the type of person you are. Moreover, not all women are impressed with men who use material things to gain favor.

Trying to manipulate her
Nobody likes to feel manipulated. Let your romance take its course. Pressing or pushing her into a long term relationship before she is really ready for it is a sure way to put an end to it.

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