We walk around every day with defense mechanisms up around us to protect our emotions. This is necessary, because we never know who might hurt us, so we have to keep somewhat aloof and distant. Social interactions can produce emotions of pleasure or displeasure, but we are careful to never let these emotions go too far.

Sex is the most intensely emotional act we are capable of, and during sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman's emotions directly and create incredibly strong bonds of attraction. If you choose, you can make these bonds of attraction unbreakable and permanent.

This will ensure that the woman will be so deeply in love with you that she will literally do anything to support your cause. Many guys bent on pickup up women will ask, "what is the point of attracting a woman after I've already had sex with her?" Lots of guys consider the first time you have sex with a woman the end of a seduction; I do not.

I consider it the beginning. I find that the first time you have sex with a woman is invariably the worst. You are not yet comfortable with each other's bodies, and cannot yet get in touch with her instincts and desires. It's cool to hook up for just a one night stand once in a while, but we all want to keep the highest quality women in our lives around. The way to do this is to give them what they really want: great sex.

I find that these ongoing sexual relationships are invariably much more satisfying than a string of one-night stands. Also, if you succeed in having a one-night stand with a woman, she will file you in the back of her memory as one of her emotionless casual encounters. If you take a woman to deeper levels of attraction through great sex, she will never forget you.

Cynics say that women will always cheat in a relationship, but this is not the case. It is true that if a woman is sexually unsatisfied, she is almost guaranteed to cheat.

However, if you can provide her with better sex than anyone else, you have guaranteed her loyalty even if you are having sex with other girls yourself. There is no incentive for her to be unfaithful when nobody else can compare to you.

You can even use the power of great sex to get women to support your lifestyle in non-sexual ways. For example, you can have your girlfriends travel to meet you, do you favors, and buy you expensive gifts.

Your girlfriends will be happy to do this because they are in love with you. This is a total reversal of the "normal" male-female relationship, where the male must use gifts and favors in order to get sex with the women. If you wish to be living this kind of lifestyle with multiple women supporting you, the way to achieve it is through sexual self-awareness.