You know, when a guy asks the question, "how do I make a woman fall in love with me," it is usually followed by a tone of desperation. And I know how that can feel. When you just cannot seem to get a woman get out of your mind, and all you want to do is hear that she feels the same exact way, it can play a lot of tricks on your mind. You start to look at every little thing that she does as a possible clue into the way that she feels, and then, you end up more confused than you were when you started out.

Love can be a funny thing. It can give you an incredible high, while at the same time driving you to powerful lows. To make a woman really fall for you, then you have to focus on the highs and make her feel the same way. The trick is, what most guys would assume would make a woman feel like she is falling in love, usually does not have quite the effect that they envision.

Here are 3 tips to make a woman fall in love with you:

1. She needs to feel like you are anything but a friend.

This is the classic trap that just about every man will fall into at some point in their life. They start off as being a friend to a woman, and then the feelings start to grow and grow. Next thing you know, he is totally infatuated and hoping that she feels the same way. The problem is, most women kind of have that unwritten rule about not mixing friendship and intimacy together, so all you are going to end up is being the friend that happens to have a crush on her. Don't try to become her friend with the hope that you can somehow win her over later on down the road.

2. You have to stay away from becoming just a brown noser to her.

This is another classic move that a guy will make and then kind of wonder why things did not pan out in the way that he was hoping for. They will just become the nicest guy in the world to a woman, complimenting her every minute that they can, going way out of their way to do her a favor, being the guy that goes shopping with her. Thing is, when you end up turning around and telling her that you are falling in love with her, she starts to see all of those things as just a form of manipulation, and you end up losing out, anyway.

3. She needs to have sexual thoughts and feelings about you.

Why even try to beat around the bush? If you want to make a woman fall in love the way that you want her to, then you need to make her feel some kind of sexual attraction headed your way. If there is absolutely nothing there, then you can be sure that it is a no deal for you. Some guys think that they can get around this and kind of make her learn to feel that way about them, but that is a long shot at best.