Stop Your Break Up and Win Back Your Ex


by Katie Wang - Date: 2008-08-09 - Word Count: 452 Share This!


Most break ups can be avoided and you certainly can win back your ex again. The trouble comes because most people don't understand what actions only push your ex further away and which work like magic in repairing and mending a relationship. You don't need to make that mistake.

What most people tend to do after a break up is freak out unintentionally and bombard their ex with call after call of attempts to try and win them back. They panic because they found themselves at a sudden lose of control and they're desperately trying to reverse their situation.

It's difficult to talk your ex into coming back but it can happen and usually because your ex felt sorry for you. These type of reconciliations tend to be short-lived. What you want to do is make your ex come back to you, willingly!

The best thing to do after a break up is not to freak out but calmly allow some distance between you and your ex. They are not going to stop talking to you forever. When two people start to conflict on a daily basis or the relationship has turned stale, this is a sign that a break is very much needed and necessary to get the relationship moving again.

Take a month break from each other and focus on yourself. This will be hard in the beginning but keep in mind this is not forever and you'll be able to get through it. Reframe from any type of communication with your ex and don't try to spy or stalk them!

The more distance you can maintain from your ex, the more your ex will soon want to close that distance. It is human nature for us to want the things we can't immediately have, so allow them to come back with time and then be ready to handle the situation with a new pair of eyes.

When you do get together and talk again, your behaviour towards them is VERY important. This is what you could call a relationship 'test' trial. They're coming back with fresh eyes and judging you again on whether you're still decent relationship material. You could just as easily screw things up here just as if you had broken the no contact and panic rule.


Want to know the RIGHT way to act to drive your ex back into your arms instead of into someone else's? It's not difficult once you know the things you need to do. Your ex has already fallen for you once, you only need to nudge them a little in the right direction to have them falling all over you: Win Back Your Ex

For more related articles and advice check out: How to Get Your Ex Back


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Katie is a writer and an artist who specializes in love and relationships. To find out more, visit: Break up Tips & Advice

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