Compliment Her, Date Her, Love Her, Get Her


by Michael Douglas - Date: 2006-12-12 - Word Count: 1530 Share This!

Gentlemen:

- Are you tired of women passing you by without a second glance?

- Are you fed up with being alone or having to settle for ugly or average-looking women?

- Are you annoyed by the fact that some guys seem to get all the great girls when you don't get any?

- Are you scared of the dating scene and unsure of how to approach and talk to women?

If these are some of your problems, then let me tell you that you are not alone. It seems the only guys who get lucky these days are the ones who know something that you don't. Modern-day Casanovas and studs understand what a woman wants and they know how to manipulate a woman to their sexual advantage.

When we enter the age that is said to be the most exciting phase of our lives, the age at which we enjoy life to its fullest, the age when we boys are called youngsters or young guns, everyone of us has one thing in mind. The same old question how to attract, date and seduce beautiful women. Isn't it? Yes, indeed, it's very true. Aren't we speaking the language of your heart?

So here I am going to share with you some important tips and tricks that you should not only keep in your mind but also follow to attract the fair sex towards you. Not only this, you can also make others feel jealous of you - and, believe me, other men will be shocked at your success!

Never before has a man thrown out the rule book and exposed every last intimate secret about what it takes to get a great woman. These secrets are vital to your success and it is important that you understand them to get yourself into the lives, hearts - and beds of beautiful women! Hmmmm...

Do you know what is the biggest myth that most of the guys believe?

It is that you have to be good-looking and rich to get a woman...

B-U-T - but my dear friends, this is simply - not true!

It does not matter if you are ugly, bald or poor!

It does not matter what age you are - 18 or 80!

It does not matter if you have a low-paying job!

Whatever your appearance, age or occupation, you can transform yourself into a man that women will be fighting over. If you follow these tips for dating and pick-up success, women will flock to you from all corners of the bar, restaurant, the nearby shopping mall or even the supermarket. Literally, anywhere you go, women will want to date you, and the best thing is - they won't know why! It's not a joke, guys, it's a dream come true for everyone of you.

Women will be putty in your hands!

I'll tell you how to manipulate the dating game in your favour so that you walk away with hot dates every single night, and your friends will be so jealous, they'll beg you to let them in on your secret!

Do you want to be the guy who's successful with any woman you desire? Well, starting today - you can be!

Forget all that you have learned about dating women up until now... If you've learned it from a man, chances are it doesn't work! Most of the well-known dating and seduction books or articles that are written for men, by men, fail to realize one thing: only a woman truly knows what a woman wants! But we won't let the same thing happen again. So this is the first and probably the most important thing that you should keep in mind and find out what a woman expects from you. Then try your best to fulfill that particular expectation.

Do remember that there are no easy 'one-liners' that actually work well. Girls hear one-liners all the time and when they hear a cheesy line from you, they presume you are only after one thing - and promptly reject you! The more times you're rejected, the harder the dating game seems and the lower your confidence plummets.

5 things girls love to hear

There are some rules that are to be followed while going on a date. I have asked 250 girls around the world to give me the one tip guys should know, when dating. Here are the results:

The top 5 things girls love to hear are...

1. Compliments

2. Compliments

3. Compliments

4. Compliments

5. And more compliments

That's the answer girls gave to the question. Every single girl likes to be listened to and complimented in the right way, at the right time, by the right person. Pay attention to her, be honest, and speak from your heart. But don't overdo it.

Now let me tell you the compliments that can really attract a woman to you. But take good care when making use of these compliments while dating the one you love.

Indirect Compliments

* I like this colour.

* You are right

* (If she is preparing a dish) Mmmm... It smells good

* (While eating) It's delicious (and) How did you do that?

But never, never speak about tits, legs and ass on the first date. It would be too sexual at that point of time. And it would be perceived as a major intrusion. What you think is a compliment might very well be perceived as an insult.

Direct compliments

Excellent for the first approach

* I like your shirt. I like your skirt... I like your earrings.

* I like your bracelet. May I see it?

* I like your bag... I love the sound of your voice.

More Sensual

* I like your hair.

* I like the way you dress.

* Your hair looks so soft.

* Hmmm... you smell good.

It means more or less: I like you. I offer you this compliment as a proof of my admiration. Let's be friends.

Anything sensual but nothing sexual or related to the body, unless you can defuse it with humour. Otherwise, it might be too direct. There is no pretty woman who would turn down regular compliments and entertaining company, from a handsome guy.

Direct body compliments

* Nice legs!

But, hey, while making use of these direct body compliments, be careful. It is like entering the Danger Zone. It's like nitroglycerin and can blow up on your face any minute if you don't know how to use it. Many girls can take that as an insult. It's like saying, "Nice ass." Use it only when you know the girl and you perceive flirting signals. Never use it early. Because it means more or less - "My hand would fit very well on your legs, and I'd like to..." Girls usually don't like that unless they already like you. But how can they like you if those are your first words and they don't even know you? Believe me, my friends, there are better ways to give a killer first impression.

Moreover, if a girl has nice legs, do you think she waited for you to notice it? If you say it, you act as a beggar and you give away all your feelings. Seduction is like a poker game, not a demolition site. You don't want the girl to see you as the guy with a helmet, behind the fence where it is written - "Under construction."

But once she brushes up against you, or you can touch her any time, it's fine by me.

Top compliments

* You are gorgeous

* You are very pretty.

* You are beautiful... (or) You look beautiful tonight....

You have to find elements in the situation (clothes, attitude, haircut, personality...) anything related to her and special to that moment, so your compliment will be totally honest.

Personal compliments

* You are looking nice today, Senorita!

And she will feel great, as sexy as Jennifer Lopez - dancing on a hot tin roof.

Indirect top compliments

These are a few smart ones:

* You know you're... (Give a looong pause after that. Let her fill in the blank on her own)

* You know you are gorgeous.

* You know how much I care for you.

Hot compliments

Once you become very intimate, treat your lady like a princess. One of the best ways to turn her wild in bed is to make her feel sooooooo... good. You can deliver hot compliments while making love...

* I love your skin. So soft.

* I love the taste of your skin.

* Let me watch you. You're beautiful.

Any girl likes to be appreciated for what she is. Any girl likes to be loved. I don't say that's how you get girls interested. Don't compliment them at the very beginning. Remain solid as a rock and a big challenge for her.

As I keep saying, chasing women is like playing poker (I really hope yo know what poker is...). Don't show your cards right away and the game will be interesting for her. Play your compliment-card when it is your turn. Not before. Women were huntresses hundreds of years ago. They still are. They love to run after YOU and get YOU.

But once you know for sure that you have gained interest, find the right words and let them drop on her eardrums like the precious pearls of a earring. You will become her Prince Charming and she will fall in your strong arms like ripe fruit.

Apply these tricks and I am sure you are going to feel on top of the world (along with your lady in Red).

Happy dating...!!!


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Michael Douglas is an author, relationship expert and a webmaster of Love-Lectures.com, where he provides free relationship advice and love advice to help couples in building healthy and successful relationships.

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