Surely there are many online dating services out there these days. You can even join lots of those sites for free! But honestly, how many people do you think have ever found true love there?

With the rate that those sites are going, one small dating service site could attract up to a hundred new members each day. From what I heard, plentyoffish.com attracts 5 million visitors daily! Can you imagine how many will join, knowing that it's free and promising that true love is only one little click away?

People want things instantly. They don't want to be told to wait. That's why we have softwares to do just that for us. Everything should happen in a blink of an eye. If a site can't live up to that expectation, then it's purely amateurish.

Unfortunately, what happens then is that everyone from all over the world starts joining those free dating sites, and soon enough they'll get millions and millions of members! And what does that mean to the site owners? More money, definitely! Even though they're free to join, they still do have tons of ads that keep shouting for a click.

And what does more visitors mean to the members? More competition!

Let's say you join a dating service. You see this list of girls you can choose from, right? Which one would you be picking? The pretty one, no doubt? And you expect that she'll respond to your email and you two will find true love. Well guess what, everyone else is doing the same. That pretty lady might already have been receiving heaps and heaps of emails everyday. So, unless you're Brad Pitt, what is the chance that she'll even bother reading your profile?

Then it'll be high school all over again.

So what do we need then? You guessed right. What we need is just a small non-profit community of people sharing the same intention, which is to find love. And where can you find that kind of community? MySpace? Nope, it's far too big, and even if it's easy to make friends there, most of the members are not really looking for a date.

The answer is: in a dating service blog!

Blogs still rely on manual handling to deal with posts and stuff, which makes it impossible for them to get thousands of instant members everyday!

Now, if you haven't got much luck in the past with those free dating sites, it's time to try on something new and join a blog that has just that kind of service! In fact, I'm encouraging you to open your own blogs and start your own dating communities!

Free dating sites have proved to be a little too much for us. We need a new place. Just a small community of real people with the real desire to bring love into their lives.

Now, if you're just looking for love and don't feel like blogging, here's a blog you can visit And if you're a blog owner, then do us all a favor and create one yourself.

Online dating should not be that hard to do.