How To Get A Guy To Ask You Out : 3 Tips To Get Him To Ask You Out


by Sarah Nichols - Date: 2008-09-24 - Word Count: 426 Share This!

You know this guy. You're pretty sure that he likes you and you're starting to come around to him too. But, he hasn't taken that giant leap and asked you out yet. While you can't force him to go out with you, there are things you can do to make him more likely to ask you out. So let's learn how to get a guy that you like to ask you out.

Here are 3 tips to get him to ask you out:

1). Put yourself in positions that he can ask you out easily.

He probably won't ask you out in front of your friends. Try to get alone with him, but don't make him feel too uncomfortable. Just make sure that you are safe as in people would be able to tell if you were being hit or stuff like that. Remember, it might be a "jump" out of that guy's comfort zone to ask you out. Try to become friends with him, so it only becomes a step.

2). Make one on one communication with him

If he can't talk to you comfortably, you two shouldn't be going out yet. If he has a chance to talk with you one-on-one, and he may feel more comfortable asking you out later (don't expect an invitation right then). Instead of being romantic, keep the conversation practical and friendly and appreciative. Do not forget having fun, laughing and flirting is being very smart

3). Signal him in.

Now you are talking and flirting, you really need to signal him in to ask you out. The best way is to talk about doing things couple usually do, like going to the movies, going out to dinner and if you are game, mention the fact you have no guy usually to go with (try and do this in a light hearted way).

Also try sneaking into the conversation snippets about boyfriends, girlfriends and relationships to identify the fact you are both single. It helps to focus the conversation a little. Now, if he still did not ask you out, what can you do about it? Ask him out!

Just ask him yourself. Plenty of girls ask out guys nowadays. It's fine if he says no. Just don't let it get you down. Stay positive and move on. Remember, he might be interested in you, but he might just not be ready for a relationship. Don't pressure him too much. He will ask you out when he is ready. Just take action! Taking action is a victory in itself. Focus on the action, not the outcome.


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