Staging Post 5- A Time of Accomplishment


by Elaine Sihera - Date: 2007-04-27 - Word Count: 402 Share This!

No longer considered 'old age', people in these years are not biologically, sociologically or mentally like the stereotype of decrepit, senile old codgers. Rather, they are healthy, often well-educated, and the major consumers of leisure in our society. Not quite in the labor force, they may become politically active and community-oriented. Excluded dreams might re-emerge, like the retiring corporate executive who decides to take up the guitar because, though he had always wanted to play it, he had not found the time for it before. Now he has that time and is rearing to use it.

This also tends to be the advisor stage. Individuals at this staging post tend to play a key role in shaping the future of organizations and their community by 'sponsoring' or mentoring promising people, projects and ideas. The advisor has often developed a distinct competence in one or several areas of expertise and is likely to have a regional or national reputation. Capable of exercising formal and informal influence in the decision-making process, advisor's have a thorough understanding of their environment and work and can be a catalyst for positive change. Naturally, not all professionals reach this advisor stage, but being content at this staging post is one of the signs of success in an individual's chosen career or area of expertise.

Focus on Personal Priorities

This period of accomplishment after completion of the mid-life transition can be one of the most productive of all staging posts. We are at the peak of our mature abilities here. If the mid-life issues have been acknowledged, addressed and resolved, we can now make our greatest possible contributions to others and society. Here we can be less driven, less ego-centered, less compelled to compete with, and to impress, others. Instead we can focus on what really matters to us, on developing younger people, on communion with others, or on leaving some personal legacy that makes things better for others or the environment.

It is also a time for settling into more realistic and rewarding relationships based on recognizing the partner's imperfections and helping them to grow. But that is what age, experience and success should do: make the individual far more confident, fearless and proficient. Relationships benefit from this calmer phase. The ones that reach this stage are likely to last until death. With work, children and personal angst out of the way, the couple can now focus completely on each other.


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ELAINE SIHERA (Ms Cyprah -http://www.ecademy.com/user/elainesihera and http://www.myspace.com/elaineone) is an expert author, public speaker, media contributor and lifestyle columnist. The first Black graduate of the OU and a post-graduate of Cambridge University. Elaine is a CONFIDENCE guru and a Personal Empowerment, Relationships and Diversity Consultant. Author of: 10 Easy Steps to Growing Older Disgracefully; 10 Easy Steps to Finding Your Ideal Soulmate!; Money, Sex & Compromise and Managing the Diversity Maze, among others (available on http://www.amazon.co.uk as well as her personal website). Also the founder of the British Diversity Awards and the Windrush Men and Women of the Year Achievement Awards. She describes herself as, "Fit, Fabulous, Over-fifty and Ready to Fly!"

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