Discussing The Female Orgasm With Your Partner


by Gabrielle Moore - Date: 2006-12-06 - Word Count: 453 Share This!

We've talked about a lot of things in my last articles which should help you understand female orgasm better and should help you make it easier for your partner to achieve that goal as well. However, before you can really begin putting all of this information to use, you'll probably need to discuss orgasms with your partner.

When it comes to issues of sex and intimacy, women are often as close-mouthed as men. They may not want to admit that they've been faking orgasms because they don't want to hurt your feelings. They may not feel comfortable talking about sex acts or their fantasies. They may not want to admit that they have masturbated. There are all types of issues your partner may be reluctant to discuss.

However, if you are going to have a mature, mutually satisfying sex life, these topics must be discussed. Communication, after all, is the best technique for finding out what your partner wants.

In this article, we'll look at a very important topic you'll need to discuss and how you can more easily approach the subject with her.

Masturbation

Several times before I've talked about how important female masturbation is because it helps women learn what feels good to their bodies. When women can experiment in privacy and can learn their bodies better, they become more responsive lovers who can guide you in your quest to bringing them greater sexual satisfaction. The problem is that a large percentage of women who have masturbated are ashamed or embarrassed to admit it.

While society pretty much accepts male masturbation, it still views female masturbation as somewhat taboo. Plus, women today were probably raised in households where such things were simply not discussed. Many adult women are shocked when they finally discover that their mothers were also masturbating all that time.

Anyway, the reason I'm telling you all of this is because you may face difficulty when it comes to talking about masturbating with your partner. Now, of course, some women have no problems broaching the subject. Others, however, are more timid. You'll sort of have to feel your way through the conversation. To help you, I've developed an example conversation below which is similar to many of the conversations I've helped my clients plan when they wanted to discuss this sensitive matter with the women in their lives. It should give you some idea of how to begin the conversation and how to steer it in the right direction.

Also, keep in mind that while not all sex conversations should take place in the bedroom, this one may be a good one to have on the bed while both of you are feeling a little amorous. That way it will make what comes next a little easier.


Related Tags: women, marriage, relationship, female, sexuality, masturbation, orgasm

Gabrielle Moore is author of the famous book Female Orgasm Revealed. She is also the founder of http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com

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