Know Your Man: Stop This Yackity Yack!
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you will be criticized anyway." ~ Anna Eleanor Roosevelt.
"I think a good name for a horror movie would be, "The Bitchening." I'm not sure what the monster would look like, but I bet it would act a lot like my ex-wife." ~ Wes Nessmann
From an email: "Some women are always whining, pestering, or nagging about something. With them, nothing can ever be right. They pull all kinds of little tricks to get and control a man's attention. If he's watching television, she wants him to get up and put out the trash. When he has time off from work, she tries to plan each hour for him. If it's bill-paying time, she's crying about her car bill being late."
For many of us, a man can never do anything right. Besides the infamous "my way or no way," women seem to blame everything that doesn’t meet their expectations on the men, since they are close by and mostly available. I used to be like this when I was married. My poor ex-husband had to put up with all sorts of bitching comments.
I thought he was the reason for every little thing that went wrong in my life, from the dryer not working to the leaves on the lawn, from the dirty bathtub to the temperature of the house. Moreover, his entire person was bad: his driving was bad; his manners were bad; his parenting style was bad; his physical appearance was bad. There was nothing the poor guy would be, do or have that I didn’t complain about it.
I now ask myself: since he was all wrong, what was that which attracted me to him in the first place? Well, I liked his relaxed manner and his laissez-faire attitude. Bingo! The answer is sadly very common: what attract us to our men at the beginning of a relationship ends up being what makes us reject them as time goes by. Those of us who are the quintessential of bitching should not impose this trait on our fellow earth companions. Bitchy women: remain single!
Word of Advice Ladies: Please, refrain yourself. Nagging is a great turn off. It is also what makes men seek more pleasant company.
Gents: Don’t put up with it. Have a sincere conversation and decide to impose serious consequences to acts of nagging.
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