The 4 Traits of an Super Desirable Male


by Ken Bangler - Date: 2007-04-15 - Word Count: 502 Share This!

Have you ever noticed that while many males are good looking, only a small number have that certain "thing about them" and stand apart from other men?

There is something remarkable about those chosen few that can make a woman melt. Some traits are obvious and others we subconsciously pick up on.

Trait #1: Displaying Confidence

A man who is self-confident and unfluctuating is a huge turn on. Look at the way a man sits, stands or walks. Does he move in a self-confident manner?

A "sure of himself" manner is so much more attractive than a mouse of a man who looks skittish, nervous and ready to run. Women are naturally drawn to confident men because they make them feel at peace.

A man does not have to be a muscle man and gorgeous to have confidence in himself. Confidence shines through physical appearance and women can't get enough of it.

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, however. Arrogant men are usually not magnetic at all and women give them a wide berth.

Trait #2: Grooming

Good grooming is important for anyone. We usually make up our minds about someone within the first few seconds of meeting them, so looking your best is important. A man with clean hair, nails and teeth is attractive, especially if his clothes are clean and pressed.

A man does not have to be beautiful to be Ultra Sexy but it is best to make the most of what you have.

Women are far more likely than males to notice anything lacking in grooming. Bad breath, dirty nails or stained clothing are not the look to aim for. Deodorant and cologne are good but not if there is too much. A subtle hint of manly essence is what appeals to most women, not Old Spice making their eyes water from 20 feet away.

Trait #3: Great Eye Contact

Eye contact is one of those things it is important to get just right. Too little makes you appear disinterested.

Too much can make you seem like intimidating stalker material. A man who keeps his eyes on the woman he is talking to about 80% of the time will come across as being interested and seem attractive to her.

Also, it goes without saying that eye contact should be with the woman's eyes, not with her chest.

Trait #4: Respectful of Her Space

When a woman first meets a man, she does not want him too close. This makes her feel threatened. About an arm's length away is ideal.

If she feels comfortable with him being closer, she will move towards him. Women don't like males who are too touchy-feely straightaway either.

The occasional light touch on the arm is usually alright but don't get too personal early on. A woman likes to be left wanting more, not being touched excessively.

Ken Bangler (of SeductionMonkey.com) is the author of the FREE report titled "The 8 Traits of an Sexually Desirable Man". For a limited time, you can get a FREE copy at SeductionMonkey.com

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