Love Coach Brings Hope
Hope essentially is the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best.
Your hope should never be centered in a person or thing, as that only sets you up for ultimate disappointment. Though your perception may be your personal inward reality, it is not fully and truthfully the total reality. When we place unrealistic expectations on people or things beyond our control, we are bound to be disappointed and frustrated.
A more empowering approach is to celebrate yourself, your own resourcefulness, and ability to impact your current reality. We all have the power of influence to some degree over people and things. We don't need to always try to change people and things. However if we exert our influence and seek to touch those and that which is around us, often we will see transformation and change occur. Nevertheless don't seek immediate change. Just rest content in being heard and exerting your influence, whether it is received or not. Remain detached so as to not become excessively emotionally invested. Those who get overly emotionally invested in someone or something find themselves becoming angry and manipulative. Anger and resorting to manipulation will kill your relationship faster than anything else. Everybody is entitled to their own individuality, decisions, and thought processes. We therefore should never think to lord ourselves over someone else.
Parents learn this as their children enter their teenage years. As children age and mature, they begin to discover their identity and individuality. If you disrespect and violate their identity and individuality, you will quickly become their enemy. Thereafter your influence and opinions will not so readily be embraced or received. It is essential therefore to step back a bit emotionally and guard against become pushy. The same is true in relationships.
Though I am married, I also realize I have no control over my wife's decisions. Should she lose interest in me one day and want to move out, there is nothing I can do. If I fret and resort to infantile tactics, by no means shall I win her respect. The ideal approach than is to celebrate her individuality and give her liberty to live her dreams, whatever they may be. After all, we live in a free country.
Once you set a person free, they are more apt to evaluate what brought and attracted them to you in the first place. At this juncture, they can be brought back to and reminded of the positives which they most value. As value increases, so too does respect. Where there is respect, people will not be so quick to reject.
Hope requires that we first be hopeful about ourselves and our own future. "Get a life!" as one person said. When you develop your life within and create your world, you become attractive to others around you. When you are going somewhere, you become more interesting to follow. Others suddenly want to join you on your journey. Desire and confidence is transmitted through you and everything you do.
You become an irresistible magnet that attracts what you are. As you hope, believe, desire, dare, and trust your Creator; serendipity magnificently kicks in and the universe conspires to give you what you want, setting miracles in motion for you as you walk by faith and not by sight. Suddenly you deeply feel that your most cherished desires will happen, boldly travel to them, and happily live them.
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Paul Davis is a life purpose coach (relational & professional), worldwide minister, and former fitness trainer.
Paul is a poet and author of several books including Breakthrough for a Broken Heart; Are You Ready for True Love; and Adultery 101. Paul is a popular keynote speaker, creative consultant, adventurer, mediator conquering conflict, liberator, and dream-maker.
Paul's compassion for people & passion to travel has taken him to over 50 countries of the world where he has had a tremendous impact. Paul has served in many war-torn, impoverished and tsunami stricken regions of the earth. His organization Dream-Maker Ministries is building dreams, breaking limitations and reviving nations.
Paul inspires, revives, awakens, impregnates with purpose, imparts the fire of desire, catapults people into a new level of self-awareness, facilitates destiny discovery and dream fulfillment.
Contact Paul to speak at your event or for life coaching:
RevivingNations@yahoo.com, 407-284-1705
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