13 Proven Ways Leaders Handle Rejection


by Karen M. Pina - Date: 2007-01-11 - Word Count: 575 Share This!

1) Look to the ExampleThe validity, authenticity and power of Jesus' work was questioned by the synagogue leaders (Matthew 12:22-30, 13:53-58). Hear Jesus' words of encouragement to his disciples (Matthew 10:14-17, Matthew 7:26-28).

2) Pray For the Person(s)Pray as Holy Spirit leads you for the person rejecting the message and rejecting you, the messenger.

3) Better RecognizeKnow that the person can be under spiritual attack.

4) Pray for YourselfAsk God to shield you from the rejection, to release you from any slander or word curses spoken to you, and to keep your heart pure. Also, pray that you continue to move in love in the relationship and commit to continue to be a blessing to them until God moves you on.

5) Stir Up the Gifts of God in YouReassure yourself that what you have been given belongs to God.  It is a gift from God. You have been chosen to bear the gift and to use it severally and individually as He wills. The gift is perfect because it came from above. The gift is good and it brings richness and not sorrow.

6) Do Not Take it PersonalRejoice that you are able to know God in this way as you are suffering with Him and bearing the marks of Jesus in your body. Rejoice I say, for truly you will reign with Him just as you suffered with Him and for Him.

7) Keep it MovingDo not get stuck in your thoughts, emotions, feelings, and flesh. Seek God's help to see it from His vantage point by asking, "What are you trying to teach me?" and "What area are you trying to reshape or mold in me?" You can also keep it moving by focusing on those who DO embrace and fully receive the gifts you impart to them.

8) Keep it in PerspectiveYou will not be received or rejected by everyone - Thank God! It's healthy to have some conflict. If you are not experiencing any, ask God and yourself, "Am I doing, saying, and being what you want me to?"

9) Aim Higher!Stay focused on your reward. Press toward the high calling in Christ Jesus. Think about your eternal impact and rewards. What crown will you be wearing? What will your work represent gold, silver, precious stones, or wood, hay and stubble?

10) Execute Obedience Regardless of the OutcomeThere is a myth that says if everybody is happy with what I'm saying and doing, it must be effective and okay.  The truth is when everybody is not happy with you, most likely God is pleased.  Obey God period.

11) Discern the Times We Live in Many have waxed cold in their love walk and are lovers of self not God.

12) Set Your Face Like FlintDo not be moved by the praises of men or by men's disapproval.  They exclaimed Hosanna one minute for Jesus and cried out crucify Him, crucify Him the next moment. Be prepared for the same and rest in a clear conscience that comes from pleasing God.

13) Don't Render Evil for EvilSpeak good of the person(s) who rejected the message/messenger. You have nothing to prove or defend. God will do the proving, defending, and validating.

Remember, God has the final say about your work, not man, not you, and certainly not the devil or a demonically influenced accusation in the form of rejection (Isaiah 49:4-5).  I close this article with a grace point.  Rejection is a spirit; deal with it as a spirit and do not attack the person.

Surely,

Karen M. PinaGOD's Coach

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Karen M. Pina is a leader's leader and a coach's coach. She trains and writes for visionaries, entrepreneurs, and coaches. She is the founder ofGifts Ordained by Direction (www.godscoach.com), a training and coaching practice that addresses everyday leadership issues. The teleclasses, workshops, and coaching sessions Karen offers are an extraordinary opportunity to change your life and enjoy every minute of it.

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