The mystery of subconscious


by - Date: 2007-07-31 - Word Count: 653 Share This!

What can give you the most information and let you understand your partner the best? As most of you perhaps guessed these are not words but gestures. Nonverbal communication can give us the full picture of a person as he or she is without any pretending, as gestures that people show during the communication are subconscious and mostly express their thoughts and desires.

Actually, your success in relations with the opposite sex depends on your abilities to understand the signals sent by your partner. If you interpret them correctly, you can send the correcponding signals and behave tactically. If you want to figure someone out, it's better to combine that person's words and gestures when analysing a situation. Whrn the words of your interlocutor are at variance with his gestures, you'd better trust the motions.

It's worth mentioning that women possess a larger spectrum of refined ways to attract attention and manipulate men. Besides, alluring gestures, long stares and adjusting hair or clothes are common for both sexes. For example, blushing cheeks and dilated pupils show person's excitement. If you want to have a complete understanding between you and your partner, you can conciliate him in a fast and simple way by copying his pose and reflecting his gestures. Do it gradually, but only you feel yourself comfortable enough.

In case of long-distance relationship, guys want to know how to behave while meeting their ladies after the long months of correspondence over the Internet. Behaving correctly is very important in these situations. So, here's one tip that will help you understand if your female partner is sexually attracted to you.

Scientists say, before two people decide if they need or want each other, their chemistry on subconscious level has already known it from the first moment of their face-to-face meeting. Every person has intimate or private space with the radius of 50 centimeters. If you want to check whether a girl likes you or not, try to get closer to her breaking this limit and step back after a few seconds. Then watch her reaction. If a woman allows you to enter her territory and feels herself relaxed, free and comfortable, it's a signal for you to get closer to her. And vice verse, if she's nervous, irritated and tries to get back from you, it means she's not ready for a close relationship with you. All this happens on a subconscious level so she'll never notice that you're testing her. She may even have not understood yet, if she likes or dislikes the person.

Also, if a lady is interested in the opposite sex, she subconsciously puts her feet a bit broader than usual. Even if she's in a company of several men, no matter if she's sitting or standing, her toes will be always directed towards a man she's interested in. Crossed legs always show emotional dissatisfaction, though sometimes a woman does so if she is highly sexually excited. That's why you should watch her eyes and mimicry as well.

Besides, for women the smell is one of the facts of the utter importance, because they are much more sensible to this kind of irritants. So, if some odor is nice and gentle for them, it can greatly increase their sexual desire. Before seeing the lady of your dream, use some good toilet water, but not too strong. The next steps will depend from your first experience and meeting.

For most guys, traveling to a girls' home-country is a life altering decision, as many men may find it hard to choose their partner without actually meeting in person. So, it's utterly normal to take a "private tour" and meet several ladies. Most girls will understand such a course of action; however, a few may find it offensive to know that there is competition.

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