Just Say Yes to Your Creative Self!


by Chris Zydel - Date: 2006-12-12 - Word Count: 912 Share This!

How many times have you said to yourself, " I want to be more creative in my life?" and how many times has that desire ended up on your New Years resolution list along with wanting to exercise or eat better, with similar disappointing results?

Well, I have good news and bad news for you today.

The good news is that you are already creative. There's nothing you need to learn, nothing missing from your basic makeup, nothing at all inadequate about you in the creative realm. In fact you are immensely more creative than you could even begin to imagine. You came fully equipped as a creative being on the day you were born. Along with a beating heart and pumping lungs, came the ability to create. In any capacity. In any realm.

Now, I can hear the wheels already turning. "Oh sure, I can be creative when it comes to making my kids' lunch, or maybe doing some creative accounting with my checkbook. But that's about it. I haven't tried to do anything remotely artistic since I can't remember when, and believe you me, it's really for the best. I have no talent. I'm just no good at being creative." Sound familiar?

OK here comes the bad news. You can be creative, in any area you choose. If you can pick up a pen or brush, you can write or paint. If you can move any part of your body you can dance. If you can squeak, you can sing. Now, I know I promised you bad news and this doesn't sound too bad yet. You're right. This isn't exactly the bad news. The really bad news is that you can do any and all of those things BUT.... you have to give something up.

Something very near and dear to your heart.

You have to be willing to give up your belief that you are inadequate, and you have to accept, totally, no holds barred, everything that comes out of you. Every word you write, every stroke you paint, every movement you make has to be held with an attitude of love, honor and respect.

Whoo boy!!! Now I can really hear those brain wheels whirring. In fact I think I'm beginning to smell smoke!

"What? Well, obviously she really is crazy. I mean come on!! If I accept everything that comes out of me, I'll just be kidding myself. Anything that comes out of me will by definition be absolute drivel. I am not prepared to make a total fool out of myself, and that's exactly what would happen if I tried to be creative. I'm telling you I HAVE NO TALENT. Mrs. Bobblycrow in the 3rd grade told me so, and I'm just glad she gave me a heads up."

OK. So here it is. This is exactly what I am talking about. This is the bad news. This is what has got to go! You have to be willing to give up your attachment to this voice. In case you haven't noticed this voice is not exactly the voice of love, honor and respect.

This voice is not on your side.

You see, the real trick to being creative is not about talent. I can just imagine that when little Bobby Zimmerman (AKA Bob Dylan), started twanging on his guitar, and then started singing, one of his "friends" came up to him and said "Bob, I'm just trying to do you a favor here. You know the songs and lyrics are great. But that voice.... I mean, Frank Sinatra you are not," and I'm sure Bobby said to this friend something along the lines of "Phooey on you. You're right. I am not Frank Sinatra, I'm Bobby, and I intend to sing." And luckily for all of us, he did.

Why do you think that voice is so strong? Where does it come from, and why do you believe it so unquestioningly? Why would most adults want to believe that they are truly not creative?

The reason you believe that voice? You've been brainwashed!!!

We have all grown up in this western 21st century culture where everything is a commodity, competition is rampant and what is valued is status and celebrity. Making art has been reduced to something that a rare few are considered to be good at and the rest of us just get to watch TV.

We have all been hoodwinked into believing that our creative expression is only worthwhile if we produce something that makes us money or gets us on Oprah. Which very conveniently distracts us from the true purpose and potential power of our creativity.

Our creativity was given to us by a very compassionate and benevolent force as a way to access and express the deepest parts of who we are. It is connected to our internal guidance system, also known as our intuition, that leads us with unfailing accuracy to make positive, optimal life choices . It is a powerful tool for healing on both spiritual and psychological levels. And it keeps us viscerally connected to what is passionate,vital, and meaningful in our lives.

What a deal!

So next time you hear that voice of the creative naysayer whispering in your ear, just smile, pick up that paintbrush, or pen or dancing shoes, and remind yourself that it really doesn't know WHAT it is talking about. It's just a little misguided. And you have to make up for lost time. You have a lot of creating to do! So get busy!!! Your creative life is waiting!

Copyright © Chris Zydel 2006


Related Tags: healing, personal growth, spirituality, creativity, intuition, expressive arts, art therapy, wild heart art

Using coaching, astrology and the expressive arts,as well as compassion, humor and insight, Chris Zydel, MA, at http://www.creativejuicesarts.com, has worked with hundreds of people over 28 years, to help them joyfully grow and expand into their full creative potential. She is the founder of the Creative Juices Arts Studio in Oakland, California and the Painting From the Wild Heart classes, workshops and retreats.

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