3 Steps to Starting Conversations With Women at the Gym


by Alex Coulson - Date: 2008-08-28 - Word Count: 399 Share This!

3 Steps To Starting Conversations With Women At The Gym

 

The gym is a great place to meet women for a number of reasons. The first is you'll find the type of woman that enjoys fitness and a healthy lifestyle but also they respect themselves by having the self-discipline to go to the gym in the first place.

 

If you're a regular gym goer then you would have noticed some beautiful women there and have been etching to start a conversation with them however a few things have held you back, do you feel weird or sleazy starting conversations with women at the gym? Do you feel like a pervert? Do you feel just because you're both half naked, sweaty and out of breath you feel like its an awkward place to approach women?

 

I used to feel very weird meeting women at the gym until I started changing my approach when I met women there. Instead of just walking up and commenting on her body or talking about the weather (biggest attraction killers) I started using situation specific conversation starters like "If only you were 10 kgs heavier you could spot me". Below you will find 3 steps to starting conversations with women at the gym.

 




Be there to work out. The last thing you want to do is to just go to the gym just to meet women, this is a little creepy and women will know you're just there to pick up instead of working out. So be sure you fit the profile with a sweat towel and wearing trainers.




Be warm, friendly and positive. There's nothing more attractive to a woman than the air of confidence of a real man. Being friendly, warm and positive are not weak character traits to have, women will be far more receptive to men that possess these opposed to the muscled, cold and un-friendly man (not matter how good looking he is or masculine).




Use situation specific conversation starters instead of talking about generic topics such as work, weather or her.



 

 

 

The important point to remember is that talking to women at the gym isn't supposed to be hard, if you make it hard in your head then ultimately it will become a very difficult task in reality, the first step is to believing that it's normal.

 

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