Social Limitations on a Man's Dating Success
- Date: 2007-01-03 - Word Count: 749
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I've heard people say that as humans (and men), 'we are social creatures'.
If you believe that now, by default it will continue to be the root of your disempowerment and demise.
Your ability to differentiate yourself from that idea or statement will lead to a lifetime of power and influence or disempowerment. How?
'Social' isn't the same as it used to be. It's now a grand power and relational game played by the Architects for money.
It's a game in which 99% of people are conditioned pawns and don't know it.
If you 'accept' that we are social creatures and live in the social matrix, you're doomed to continue in disempowerment because your relationship (if you're not an architect or social outcast) is one of a stimulus-response in which you are the response to the social matrix' influence.
If you want to truly have power (which is an aphrodisiac) and more success with women and dating, then stop partaking in co-dependent or stimulus-response relationships where you aren't the one with power.
That is where you are by default in the social matrix of popular influence.
Fortunately you HAVE the power of choice to differentiate yourself from these types of relationships just like Neo did in 'The Matrix'.
Then you can reframe them so that instead of co-dependencies you have win/win or interdependent relationships with the sources of power that held you hostage before.
In fact, I recommend that millions of men do this for their own lifestyle. All heroes, influential people and those in 'power' either are above social influence and contribute to it or they are truly equal with it so they can give and take equal value.
They are NOT one of the conditioned and 'responsive' pawns.
In my Relational Mapping exercises you will actually be able to clearly see the power game that exists. You will see how you have been the response in your relationship to social influence and programming.
When you can clearly differentiate yourself from that type of relationship, you will have more personal power than you ever realized.
This is essentially what Neo did in the Matrix. But in order to differentiate himself from it and gain his true power, he had to 'see' the matrix itself instead of being ignorant to it.
By default you are programmed to be ignorant to that true yet almost invisible relationship you have with social influence. If you accept that you indeed are a social creature and you're living in a Westernized culture, then you're a part of that system in which you are a disempowered pawn in relation to those who have real power.
Things are not just equal and open like they used to be. There are powers of influence that have shaped and defined a great game. They have reversed the dynamic between men and women. They have used sexploitation to create women as the stimulus for men to respond to.
If you keep saying we're a social creature, then you're going to fall into that same program of ineffectiveness; the opposite of nature and mating.
If you study groups of animals in the wild, all of the males were born with the ability to procreate. It's just the SOCIAL environment itself which animals are more 'dependent' on that has also internally defined the social hierarchy.
By the beta males choosing to remain in a disempowering though seemingly essential social tribe for subsistence, they exchange status and give it to the leader of the pack.
You don't ever have to play that game.
As a human male, you are not dependent on an immediate social subculture or tribal group for subsistence. You can survive on your own off of the land if you hand to. You have more power and independence than you realize.
Differentiate yourself from needing any kind of social approval and then come back and manage your relationship with all social influence and women so that you only have time for an equal exchange of value. Why? Because you're powerful and your time is important.
You have the right to procreate with whoever (willingly) wants to with you and you don't have to be subject to the whims of some assclown who is at the top of one subculture.
Make your own or create relationships with other leaders and 'alpha males' in other social subcultures and you can still be 'social', experience more success but never as a dependency and you'll live a lifestyle of more influence than you had imagined.
-Rion Williams
If you believe that now, by default it will continue to be the root of your disempowerment and demise.
Your ability to differentiate yourself from that idea or statement will lead to a lifetime of power and influence or disempowerment. How?
'Social' isn't the same as it used to be. It's now a grand power and relational game played by the Architects for money.
It's a game in which 99% of people are conditioned pawns and don't know it.
If you 'accept' that we are social creatures and live in the social matrix, you're doomed to continue in disempowerment because your relationship (if you're not an architect or social outcast) is one of a stimulus-response in which you are the response to the social matrix' influence.
If you want to truly have power (which is an aphrodisiac) and more success with women and dating, then stop partaking in co-dependent or stimulus-response relationships where you aren't the one with power.
That is where you are by default in the social matrix of popular influence.
Fortunately you HAVE the power of choice to differentiate yourself from these types of relationships just like Neo did in 'The Matrix'.
Then you can reframe them so that instead of co-dependencies you have win/win or interdependent relationships with the sources of power that held you hostage before.
In fact, I recommend that millions of men do this for their own lifestyle. All heroes, influential people and those in 'power' either are above social influence and contribute to it or they are truly equal with it so they can give and take equal value.
They are NOT one of the conditioned and 'responsive' pawns.
In my Relational Mapping exercises you will actually be able to clearly see the power game that exists. You will see how you have been the response in your relationship to social influence and programming.
When you can clearly differentiate yourself from that type of relationship, you will have more personal power than you ever realized.
This is essentially what Neo did in the Matrix. But in order to differentiate himself from it and gain his true power, he had to 'see' the matrix itself instead of being ignorant to it.
By default you are programmed to be ignorant to that true yet almost invisible relationship you have with social influence. If you accept that you indeed are a social creature and you're living in a Westernized culture, then you're a part of that system in which you are a disempowered pawn in relation to those who have real power.
Things are not just equal and open like they used to be. There are powers of influence that have shaped and defined a great game. They have reversed the dynamic between men and women. They have used sexploitation to create women as the stimulus for men to respond to.
If you keep saying we're a social creature, then you're going to fall into that same program of ineffectiveness; the opposite of nature and mating.
If you study groups of animals in the wild, all of the males were born with the ability to procreate. It's just the SOCIAL environment itself which animals are more 'dependent' on that has also internally defined the social hierarchy.
By the beta males choosing to remain in a disempowering though seemingly essential social tribe for subsistence, they exchange status and give it to the leader of the pack.
You don't ever have to play that game.
As a human male, you are not dependent on an immediate social subculture or tribal group for subsistence. You can survive on your own off of the land if you hand to. You have more power and independence than you realize.
Differentiate yourself from needing any kind of social approval and then come back and manage your relationship with all social influence and women so that you only have time for an equal exchange of value. Why? Because you're powerful and your time is important.
You have the right to procreate with whoever (willingly) wants to with you and you don't have to be subject to the whims of some assclown who is at the top of one subculture.
Make your own or create relationships with other leaders and 'alpha males' in other social subcultures and you can still be 'social', experience more success but never as a dependency and you'll live a lifestyle of more influence than you had imagined.
-Rion Williams
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