It would be a pretty cool thing to have a perfect relationship with someone that you really love, but sometimes the truth is it's just not possible. These are 2 of the biggest reasons why most couples break up. If you are at a breaking up process, and you can solve these problems with your ex, there's a good chance that you can get them back.

1) Too Much Arguing

Do you ever get this? So you're sitting on the couch watching ESPN until your girlfriend yells, "Do you mind helping me with this?" You look over and you see your girlfriend pointing down at the dishes. You look back at the TV then you look back at her... It's tied at the fourth quarter of a Monday night Patriots verse Chargers game with three minutes to go... You look over to her and signal "no" by shaking your head. When the game is over you smile to yourself. Your team has just won man! You jump up with glee only to discover the TV being turned off, followed a one to two hour about why you constantly choose to put your own fun instead of helping her out. This is an exaggerated small example, but the concept is still there. Stay with me.

You start off arguing over something simple like choirs, but it then grows into personal issues with one another. By this time, like a snowball rolling down the winter valleys of Ohio, your argument is unstoppable - you and your "love" are now in a full out, heated argument that's not even about dishes anymore. It's about winning .

It happens once, twice, and a lot more until you just can't stand it anymore. Your arguments aren't even about the issues, it's about who's on top. If you can't put your ego aside, before you know it, you guys are either taking a break or broken up. Even though arguing can be a major cause to a break up, it's not as severe as the next problem.

2) Trust Issues

Let me ask you another question - Does your boyfriend ever constantly tell you that he's "going somewhere" without even telling you where or when he's coming back and just leaves? Or perhaps he's telling you that he's going someplace that seems "awkward" like a concert with some friends when he's not even into music.

Later his cell phone vibrates and you see a text message from someone named "Cindy." Obviously, you're not a nosy person so your not going to read his messages and go about your business... but later you find him to ignore you more and more and spending more time outside with "his friends" rather than spending the time where he should be spending the time - at home with you. A week or two later, you accidentally walk somewhere and around the corner, you see him kissing another women. You get a sudden shock in your body as if you wish that your eyes were fooling you, but they aren't. When you go back home and talk to him about it... he denies it. Obviously, there are trust issues here that need to be resolved.