Why You Need to Flirt While Dating


by Francis Githinji - Date: 2008-10-06 - Word Count: 503 Share This!

After getting a date do not think that flirting now you are through with flirting. Actually, this is when the real fun and nice flirting sets in. Flirting continues everywhere. Even people who are married flirt once in a while even when they have children. Flirting is one of the fun things that you can do with your mate or with someone else. According to some scientist, the human race could have been extinct if no one dared to flirt. Flirting and dating goes hand in hand. If you flirt with a person and he or she flirts with you, you could be on your way to finding that perfect person you were looking for. Just like when you were flirting before you got the date, the flirting rules are almost the same.

When you go out with a person for a first date you should never think about flirting sexually. It is quite easy to flirt using all the sexual lines you know but when you go for a first date you should make sure you lock all your sexual lines somewhere. You cannot be sure just how much the person is comfortable with that topic and since you are not sure, do not bring it up for whatever reason. If you are curious to know, save your curiosity for a few more days when you are both feeling like you know each other enough to initiate that topic. Remember it is a very sensitive topic, approach like you would walk on broken glass and you are barefoot.

Since it is your first date and you would like the person to know that your‘re genuinely interested in them, it would be a good idea to sit close to the person. This is a sign of flirting. In a way you are telling the person that you are interested in them and you are listening to what they are saying. Do not forget that sitting close to them is not enough. Your body should be turned towards them. If it is turned in the opposite direction it can only mean one thing, you are not interested. If you are not careful you might not get yourself a second date with this person. Try as much as you can to get your body language right.

While with you date, make sure you look at them in the eyes. Avoiding their eyes could only mean that you are hiding something from them and at this point, it could only mean that you are having a relationship and you do not want them to know about or that you are totally uninterested in them and you are such a coward you cannot tell them to their face. There is no hiding behind being shy; they will definitely not believe that lie. No matter how shy you are, make sure you make some eye contact with your date. It will go along way in telling someone that you like them and you are looking forward to having a great relationship.


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