Why Do You Cheat On Your Partner

After the first baby, the domestic fronts gets into a regular rhythm of waking up early to prepare breakfast, feed hubby and baby, clean house, care for baby, a little afternoon nap, then cooking dinner. Sex becomes a mechanical act because hubby is tired from all that working to buy you a new dishwasher and curtains. Not yet in the big league, but he's already planning to install a home surveillance system before you hire a nanny.

But as time flies, you start wondering if you are still attractive. You wonder if he still sees you as the fresh-eyed 21 year old he met in the bookstore; does he see nothing but a baby sitter, cook, house cleaner, and a sex partner? By the time you have three kids, hubby becomes more distracted with work and sex becomes a grunt, a groan and then bang. It's over.

At 38, you're ripe for adultery. When a man eyes you appreciatively, you feel the shivers. Golly, a man is attracted to the cook, nanny, house cleaner, and Laundromat! When the stage is set, you start cheating on your husband and there is no return, unless you get caught in flagrante delicto by your home surveillance cameras or your husband's spy cameras hidden cleverly around the house.

As a cheating wife you have joined thousands of other desperate wives who:

* Feel they are emotionally neglected
* Wants revenge on a cheating husband
* Wants the money from the extramarital affair
* Wants a thrill
* Wants sexual variety

Other women have affairs because they feel loved and they are in love with the new partner. This is emotionally difficult because these affairs usually end in nasty divorces and the battle for the custody of the children becomes even nastier.

When You're Cheating, Beware!

But if you can't help but cheat on your husband be careful. A husband can tell if you are cheating. After years of being an insipid backdrop, you are transformed to a colorful and interesting specimen, but you do not love the sex anymore. Here's what husband will do:

* Add spy cameras to your home surveillance system without your knowledge
* Tap the phone
* Buy a gadget to snoop on your inbox
* Ask friends and family to keep an on you
* Secretly wire a tracking device to your car
* Time your grocery and shopping

With the home surveillance system, here are the tips to avoid these little imps:

* Don't invite your lover to the house at all.
* Don't dress up in the bedroom and let him see how meticulously you primp up for the date.
* Don't get flustered when the phone rings, act naturally as if it's his mother calling
* Keep busy; the spy cameras can catch you day dreaming
* Don't trust that stuffed toy he surprised you with. Toss it to the closet.

If you suspect that your new home surveillance camera has night vision, don't let your date drop you off at home. It pays to be careful when you're cheating on your husband when you are not yet ready for the consequences.