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As an athlete I get massages to soothe sore, tired muscles all the time. Massages not only soothes muscles, it also soothes the mind, causing you to relax-much like meditation. But with a slight change in technique, you can turn regular massages into erotic massages. This type of massage can be used to turn on any woman. Even if it's just for a single night, the women you give these erotic, full-body massages to will be mentally connected to you. Hence, making orgasms an easier objective.

Here is why you should learn how to give erotic massages
An erotic massage is an excellent seduction technique. I have learned how to become a good masseur and because of this I have the ability to turn almost any date into an instant success. Everytime I massage the women I'm with we usually end up having unforgettable sex. It seems as if women get ultra-sensitive to the touch after an erotic massage; everything is heightened-from her emotions to her body sensitivity.

Being patient pays off

You must be patient when dealing with women. Massages go hand in hand with the way a woman's mind and body operates: they both should be worked slowly and with care. Since women can take anywhere from 20-45 minutes to get fully aroused, a massage is the perfect way to get her "juices" flowing.

Just imagine starting off with a harmless massage: "You mind if I give you a foot massage, Ruby?" then gradually moving into an erotic massage. You will be having super hot sex with her by the time you're halfway through your routine because she will be so aroused. Sounds great doesn't it?

Warning!

Before you move from a regular massage to an erotic massage, ask her if it's ok. Usually she will say yes if she is into you. But if you are not sure if you should transition into an erotic massage, stop and then ask her if it's all right to touch here or there to avoid any embarrassing and awkward moments.

Improving your massage technique

You must add erotic massaging to your "woman pleaser" repertoire if your goal is to seduce and satisfy women. Now to work on your technique you are going to need some help from the professionals. What you can do is pick up a couple of dirt-cheap books on Half.com and learn the basics of erotic massages. I actually make recommendations on my site.

Some massaging tips for beginners

Always be prepared...

If you are planning a massage please be sure you can go through your entire routine uninterrupted. No phone calls or similar types of disturbances. Assure yourself that you will have at least an hour of free time (maybe more because sex usually follows erotic massages).
Be prepared before giving a massage. Set the perfect atmosphere by making sure the room is warm and some pleasant music (i.e. Sade) is playing in the background. If you are going to play music, make sure you use a CD and have it programmed to repeat disc(s) so that it plays right through without stopping. Once again it's about rhythm... there nothing worst than having to reach over and change the song or station.

When you have everything set up nicely she will see that you are a romantic man who puts a lot thought into pleasing a woman. That's more than she can say about any other man she has been with, I bet.
Don't forget your heat warming massage oils. Keep the massage oils in an easy-to-reach location just incase you have to reapply. You don't want a break in rhythm.

You must also remember to have clean hands. Make sure your hands are clean and fingernails are cut.

Wear light clothes (if you decide to wear any) when giving or receiving a massage.

I usually massage women on a bed or table; but you can also do it on the floor so long as you have plenty of towels, sheets, and pillows to make the surface as comfortable as possible.

Before you start a full-blown erotic massage, your goal should be to get her as relaxed as possible. Tell her to close her eyes and breath deeply. Ask her once every so often if it feels good or if there is anything she wants. For example, ask her if you should go faster or slower-- use more or less pressure. When you pay attention to what a woman wants she will be even more turned on.

You have to always have at least one hand on her body; never lose contact. Move very slowly while building a nice rhythm.

Remember, the key is to go from a regular massage (back, neck, and arms) into an erotic massage (focusing on her breasts, inner thighs, clitoris, and G-spot). Start on the non-sexual regions then move you work closer and closer to her erogenous zones. You want her to anticipate your touch as much as possible.

As you get to the more sensitive areas try using your fingertips to slowly glide over her skin to get those goose bumps going. Use your thumbs and palms for the larger portions of her body (her back and feet).

As you gain experience you will find that some places need to be touched more firmly (the buttocks and thighs), while other places will only need light touches (breasts and vulva).

"So where should I start?"

While there is no right or wrong place to start a massage, I found the best place to start massages is with the feet. You'll want to start at her feet and then work your way up her body. Because the feet has thousands of nerve endings, she will feel many sensations if you massage her feet the right way. Use your thumbs in circular motions on the bottom and top of her feet.

Her back is another area that you need to pay attention to. Using your palms, slowly make circular motions in opposite directions while applying slight pressure with your body.

The next target should be the back of her thighs (so have her lie on her stomach for this). This is an extremely erotic region that usually goes unnoticed.


Tease her genitals and breasts as you pass them by. For example, if you are massaging her back (or stomach) slowly touch and rub her labia as you move towards her thighs. Teasing her in this manner will make her feel like the Nile is running between her legs.

Massaging her genitals

You should use water-based lubricants to massage her genitals
Since every woman is different you should ask her how she would like to be touched in terms of speed and motion. Some women like it when you directly stimulate their clitoris with your tongue and fingers; some women prefer you rub and lick their inner and outer labia because their clit is too sensitive.

The best way I found is to stimulate and work on the clitoris first then move into to some G-spot stimulation.

Be gentle when massaging her clitoris. First, rub the shaft of the clitoris and then gently rub the top of the clitoris. Always use circle, zigzag motions to stimulate her clitoris, then adjust as necessary. Use lots of lubrication.

Final thoughts...

Erotic massaging is a seduction technique that you must learn. Women just loved to be touched; it stimulates their minds and draws them closer to her partner.

Resource Information

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