Ideas for Kindling the Relationship Fire


by Alesandro Fillini - Date: 2007-01-14 - Word Count: 460 Share This!

When it comes to romance, thinking outside the box is definitely a good way to go. Here are a few ideas that will definitely pour love gas on your relationship fire.

Ideas for Kindling the Relationship Fire

Romance is a tricky thing if you do not have a firm understanding of what it is meant to be. Common romantic tips often include things like send flowers to her or some such thing. While this is a good step, there is no escaping it is a simple, product.

Romance is not really about things, acts or destinations. It is about intentions. When you do something romantic, you are telling the other person what you think of them and how closely you are paying attention. This often means thinking outside of the box.

If you are a man, being romantic is not nearly as hard as you think. You just need to be unique. Sending flowers says I like you, but I haven't put much effort into this. Everyone sends flowers, chocolate and so on. Instead of going down this road, try to think of something unique or something she has shown an interest in. If the lady in your life makes you watch the movie Sideways [a wine setting] and loves it, you are in like flint if you take her on a winery tour. Whatever you select, just make sure it is unique or something she has an interest in. Again, hold off on the flowers.

As a woman, romance can actually be more challenging than you might think. An intimate evening is wonderful, but you might want to spruce it up with something. Again, what does the man in your life have interests in? If he is interested in auto racing or something, book a weekend trip to a race. It may not sound romantic at first, but it tells him you pay attention to what he likes.

Regardless of your gender, there is one way to really get the fire burning. If you opposite has something they are really interested in, plan something around it. The trick, of course, is to pick something you do not necessarily like and they have to know that. If you plan a day, weekend or whatever around it, it really says something to them. It says I love you so much that I will suffer through this because I know you like it. Trust me, they will appreciate it.

At the end of the day, only you and your loved one can define what is romantic in your personal relationship. Regardless of the direction you go, do not be afraid to think outside of the box. It often will do the job.

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