Let me just tell you this up front, the counsel that I will be giving out, if taken seriously, has never failed before. And it is a basic principle in life. The clandestine of singles dating is a distinct principle that summarizes a whole lot of branches, a whole lot of tips and a whole lot of end results. It is pleasure.

So how does this work?

Just think of what is delightful. Dating is supposed to be fun. Whether it be a single date or a multitude leading to something more meaningful, you should enjoy it. Go out with someone you like. You can like them for their physical appearance, intellect or personality. It all depends on what is enjoyable for you.

Make it pleasurable for your date as well. Although it is called singles dating, it is not for a single person. Both of you should feel blissful about the date, that is the secret of it. If you give out pleasure, pleasure will come back to you. For example, give your date a good time and you'll be rewarded with a kiss. See it works both ways.

And here are some effective singles dating tips to maximize pleasure:

• Plan ahead - it is good to be prepared for a date to avoid those awkward silences. But here's a trick, on those silences, look her in the eye. Admire your date and the awkwardness will just dissipate. You can start with a simple dinner date. Go out for a movie. Or you can think of something creative such as sky diving. That will definitely blow your dates mind off. But do not think that you would have to go extremes to make a date good. It is all how you work pleasure.

• Leave place for spontaneity - although it is wise to plan your schema for the night, a little space for creativity is best. You can learn more about each other and see what is gratifying for you.

• Hygiene - be sure to bathe and brush your teeth. Wear a fresh set of cloths. And it would be very nice to use your good cologne for the special night. Smelling good would make your date snuggle up to you and facilitate pleasure.

• Bring a pocket full of complements - do not be diffident in letting your date know that you adore her and that you are absolutely in bliss when you are with her. Tell her she has beautiful eyes or she smells nice.

• Singles dating is for singles - make sure you are available when you are dating. Complications that can arise from cheating will not bring out the best in you.

These are just some of the tips you can go by to facilitate your singles dating pleasure. The trick is to follow the basic principle and the rest will follow. Once you have mastered the basic principle, dating will be effortless.

Putting in mind that you are out there to have fun will guide you on the things you have to do n a date. You can never go wrong if you put the basic principle of pleasure in action.

Good luck in your singles dating!