Self Improvement, Is Success A Mischievous Lover, Or A Disagreeable Hussy?
Time and Humans Experience Change. Somewhere in time, Humans seem to have lost their way. People have forgotten there true selves. What would be your response if you continually heard your son complaining that he just wasn't good enough to be successful. That he was hampered in some way and success was for only a chosen few. What would you say to him? "Son, you can make it", or possibly "I know you have it in you to be successful". Perhaps you already are in a similar situation.
Is wisdom the answer? What piece of wisdom would you advise for him or anyone else in the same situation? Could you stand eye to eye with your son or daughter and make a rational argument for his/her future? Perhaps you could. Perhaps he would even take your advise to heart. Unfortunately in all too many cases a parent is left with unanswered questions him/herself.
Our first response is education. Get a good education and everything will naturally be all right. Even though education is important it is only a small part of the success formula.
There other factors I believe our Lord and Father, wants the same for us. He says he provides yet we don't understand or trust the offering. We turn away from the obvious and look toward defeat and desperation. People are so filled with mistrust they won't accept because they fear there are terms. The saying "nothing is free in life" has people afraid to thrive.
Success is good for the Soul Look what success does for people especially Christian. It teaches them to plan and make something worthwhile out of their lives. It teaches him stewardship, how to handle his bounty no matter what it is. It teaches adversity; in every success story there is some adversity. It teaches people how to be humble in the face of challenge. It teaches relationships; as family and cohorts become a motivating factor in their endeavor. And most of all, it gives a higher reverence and appreciation for Jesus Christ and our creator God, because without them, it would not be possible.
Even hardened non-believers realize and use Gods laws for success. A hidden, deep down truth is, most people are believers at heart, they are just lazy; they don't get involved in Church because of non-belief it's because of distraction, laziness and indifference. They just don't get it and over the years have built up a callousness of life. It's like computers, some people get it and some don't but all are exposed to them.
The Inner self must be happy Over the years it has become evident that the inner person is the key to success. The satisfying of spirit is the ultimate goal in any success challenge. Materially, it doesn't make any difference, it's only superficial. When that deep down hunger is satisfied, that's when you know success has been accomplished.
The law is the law Here are six of twelve laws that if followed will make you a more successful person.
1. The Law of Relationships - Imminence Relationships is the number one law of God. He wants us to experience life to its' fullest and our relationships play a great part in that order. When we experience good relationships with those around us we naturally are happier and consequently more prospers.
2. The Law of Attentiveness We must be aware of our surroundings as well as our relationships. Being aware is spending the time necessary to attend to situations as they arise. Attentiveness broadens the scoop of attention to include the details of all conditions. Pay attention to details, is important to assure you experience all aspects of a challenge.
3. The Law of Information - knowing We live in an information age and those who don't keep up will be left behind. Information is power and power, when correctly applied, leads to success. You must know the rules of the game before you can play it. Stay informed, and productive.
4. The Law of Human Magnetism - Attraction Magnetism is one of those obscure laws people seem to overlook. Through your demeanor, you can draw people and success to you. Your character is your brand and your brand is what is recognized by other people. In product marketing, good branding is essential to the product's success. It's the same with people. They must be accepted by their peers in order to tread the path of success.
5. The Law of Desire - Passion Aha, passion the love of the game, the attraction of the mind. You must have a passion for what you are doing. Donald Trump says, "Passion is essential in the quest for success." You must love your chosen field of endeavor, or else compliancy will set in and destroy your efforts.
6. The Law of Fortitude - Longevity Most all successful people endured good and bad times before they became successful. Success does not happen overnight, it is a process. Success is a progressive act that occurs over a time span of days, months and years. There is no quick fix. If you are impatient, get a job, don't chase success because you will give up before you catch it.
The fact is this, everyone is equal in the beginning. Some are born into and are exposed to success principles early in life. Some people are exposed to defeatism and become oppressed in their thinking. All are capable in the end. Success is a frame of mind an elusive lover that will leave you for another if not well attended. You must court success, being diligent and responsive to her demands.
She stands proud and self assured, waiting for a suitable suitor. She can be fickle and stubborn in her relationships, casting away even the most determined of suitors. A person who courts success must be determined and aggressive in his/her quest. He/she must not fall pray to false assurances and kisses of promises.
In the next chapter, we will discuses:
- The Law of Negotiation - The Law of obedience - The Law of perception - The law of Direction - The Law of Planning - The Law of preparedness - The Law of increase
Happy Trails
Donald Yates, Former Director of Leadership and Development for the First Baptist Church of Crossville, and Business Development coordinator for Imperial Research , is now retired but continues to engage life through self discovery. 50 mpg + Run Your Car On WATER! - - Join Successful Women
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