Now, French kissing is not hard and if you follow the simple steps below you will be able to give a great French kiss.

We kiss all the time as gestures of friendship, but it becomes a sexual act when you and your partner insert your tongues into each others mouths.

Below, find three simple steps to help you give the perfect kiss and get your partner wanting you.

1. Relax

You need to relax before you kiss any sign of tension in your body or movements will transmit to your partner and is a total turn off.

Don't feel self conscious just relax.

When you are relaxed you can concentrate on the moment of the kiss only and express your affection and desire and your partner will pick up on this.

2. Lead and Follow

When you kiss your partner, you will tilt your head to one side and they will do the same.

Open your mouth and gently put your tongue in your partner's mouth, you can then start to move your tongue and they will do the same.

Note: Make sure your tongue is not limp and is firm - There is nothing worse than someone kissing you with a limp tongue - it's a total turn off.

All people have preferences on the way they like to be kissed.

Some like to have aggressive hard movements, while others like softer gentler kisses, while many people like a combination of both.

The key is to lead with French kissing the way you like it and then see how your partner responds or tries to lead you and go with the flow.

3. Use your body and variety and surprise

You should always keep your partner guessing as to what is coming next and vary your kissing.

Don't forget to use your body!

A French kiss is all about expressing desire and emotion and you can do this by holding your partner and pressing them close to you and moving your hands across their back through their hair and squeezing their buttocks. It's a sign of desire when you French kiss so use your body to back up the gesture.

You cant kiss mouth the mouth for to long you need to breathe so when you pause don't let the passion level drop keep cuddling and place light kisses on your partners face and target a great erogenous zone:

The neck - it's highly sensitive and for most people having their neck kissed and nibbled is highly erotic.

To conclude you show passion variety and use your whole body when kissing.

4. Let it Flow

The real key to the perfect French kiss is to have a natural flow using all of the above you will see what turns your partner on by the kisses and gestures you make and be able to judge by your partner's response what they like.

If you are relaxed, a kiss should simply then follow a natural flow, which is one that you don't even have to think about - you simply lose yourself in the perfect French kiss.

It can be mind blowing.

We will discuss other erogenous zones in this series of articles, but don't neglect the French kiss, it is one of the most exciting, satisfying things you can do - when you are lost in the moment of the perfect kiss.